tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22989649841063656452024-03-05T23:06:36.488+01:00Lily Understand each otherLilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.comBlogger44125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-43767819932050078932012-01-01T17:53:00.002+01:002012-01-01T18:05:11.566+01:00The woman .. Who is she?<div style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: x-large;">Do you really know the woman ?</span></strong><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ead1dc; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">As men and women are very different in their ways of acting and thinking, I propose some criteria specific to women: Gentlemen, do you know them?</span><span style="color: #ead1dc;"><br />
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</div><ul><li><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">A woman looks first to the mind of a man. </span></div></li>
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</div><ul><li><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">A woman gives what she would like to receive. </span></div></li>
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</div><ul><li><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-family: Georgia; font-size: large;">A woman can forgive betrayal but never forget it.</span> </div></li>
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</div><ul><li><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"> <span style="color: #c27ba0;">Some women like men who approach them shyly, others prefer men who approach them in a direct and voluntarily.</span></span><br />
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</div><ul><li><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"> The genius of a woman lies in her heart. </span></div></li>
</ul><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"> </span></div><ul><li><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">A man does not forget the first woman he loved .. a woman never forgets the first man who has betrayed her. </span></div></li>
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</div><ul><li><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">The best way to make a woman change her mind is to appropriate it.</span></div></li>
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</div><ul><li><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">A woman explores the issues in depth before forming an opinion and when she makes a decision, it is final.</span><br />
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</ul><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-80444792833440867512011-08-20T09:00:00.000+02:002011-08-20T09:00:04.535+02:00Master your Emotions<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZcs-fwYRVNpPRk071-JuRcp-0gmMSoFj85sHfsRhlujLEt2_xSx_uA8ndwupOvAmlSf7bnworS3z7zhskmOrOJWmM0LVTaiaNiREIN18_u0F1EfKnS4bLfvTlcHdTn8OaR12HIEy9A-c/s1600-h/Sans+titre.bmp"><span style="color: #ead1dc;"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5245505392597863138" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZcs-fwYRVNpPRk071-JuRcp-0gmMSoFj85sHfsRhlujLEt2_xSx_uA8ndwupOvAmlSf7bnworS3z7zhskmOrOJWmM0LVTaiaNiREIN18_u0F1EfKnS4bLfvTlcHdTn8OaR12HIEy9A-c/s320/Sans+titre.bmp" style="cursor: pointer; float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px;" /></span></a><br />
<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Very often, we feel emotions which make us happy, pleased, in security, etc. But very often too, negative emotions invade us and control our thoughts and attitudes. Sometimes, these negative emotions can be more painful than physical pain. People fall prey negative emotions and make the wrong decisions or take adverse actions. Therefore emotions are one of the most important part of human life. Some people spend hours in thinking, crying, or recalling the bad story, isolate themselves or even hurt themselves without really being able to relieve themselves. Others run away and stop thinking of the problem in order to escape the bad feeling of emotional pain, so they try to do 'something else' and pretend to be happy or not caring, a way of repressing negative emotions in order to be released from real life. None of these attitudes will solve really the problem as one should face the negative feeling and not run from it. Here are 11 steps that we can follow regularly each time we feel negative emotions invading us :</span></div><span style="color: #ead1dc;"><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ead1dc;">1. Accept full responsibility for the emotion. Even if you don't fully believe it right now, tell yourself, "I Create My Reality, and I am Creating this Emotion Right Now". Usually, people never get beyond step one because they actually believe that outer circumstances are causing their emotions. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
<span style="color: #ead1dc;">2. Name the emotion. Giving the emotion a name increases your clarity, awareness, and consciousness. Don't just say you feel sad or bad or mad. Expand your emotional knowledge until you can positively identify the feelings of violation, disappointment, anxiety, shame, embarrassment, and many more. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
<span style="color: #ead1dc;">3. Let go of the story. The story is whatever it is outside yourself that you think caused the emotion. Literally "see" the story being cut off from your emotion and fading away. Let go of the story but keep the emotion that you created and which now has a name.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
<span style="color: #ead1dc;">4. Bless the emotion. Blessing the emotion means not judging it as good or bad. Accept the emotion in a spirit of gratitude and learning. This is necessary in order to do the next step properly. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
<span style="color: #ead1dc;">5. Feel the emotion. With no judging or resistance, simply feel the emotion. Notice where you feel the emotion physically in your body. Raise your consciousness as you become a "witness", a kind of observer of your own processes. What you resist persists, and allowing the emotion in this way is the very opposite of resistance. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
<span style="color: #ead1dc;">6. Ask for clarity. In a spirit of learning and willingness to grow, ask for insight as to the reason for the emotion. Don't go back to the story. The "cause" of the emotion is you, and nothing outside yourself. Ask "What do I need to learn from this emotion." Also ask "What ineffective belief do I own that created this emotion." </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
<span style="color: #ead1dc;">7. Identify the belief. Create a space for the answer to come, and it will come. At the root of nearly every painful emotion is an ineffective belief. You may believe that you must make everyone happy. You may believe you can't be loved if you are not perfect. You may believe that you are simply not worth it. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
<span style="color: #ead1dc;">8. Replace the belief. Once you have identified the belief, choose to replace it with a more effective belief. Literally say to yourself, "I now choose to reject this (ineffective belief) and adopt this (empowering belief) in its place". </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
<span style="color: #ead1dc;">9. Summary – You will find that during the last four steps of the process, something magical has happened! The painful emotion is gone, completely transformed into something else. The reason for this magic is the clarity and increase in consciousness.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
<span style="color: #ead1dc;">10. Normally, people resist their painful emotions with intense energy, which only keeps them festering and in pain for hours. By allowing yourself to feel in a spirit of openness and acceptance, you can learn your lessons quickly.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
<span style="color: #ff99ff;"><span style="color: #ead1dc;">11. A fantastic side benefit is that you now have a powerful new belief in place! You can grow more in a few weeks than you have in the past years by </span></span><span style="color: #ead1dc;">practising this process diligently.</span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-68982093685778580882011-06-23T21:46:00.001+02:002011-06-23T21:47:10.527+02:00Emotional Intelligence.. What is it?<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd;"><strong><span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: x-large;">Are you emotionally intelligent? </span></strong></span></div><br />
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<div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; LINE-HEIGHT: 0" id="cboxdiv"></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-89428098407849391552011-04-16T13:20:00.002+02:002011-04-16T13:20:52.309+02:00Better Understand a Woman<div style="text-align: center;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="color: #a64d79;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><strong>What to do with a Stressed Woman !</strong></span></span></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Ma9s_PWhSFo/Taf6LEUJHII/AAAAAAAABg0/HL2-3rbrSEI/s1600/stressed-woman-cartoon.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" r6="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Ma9s_PWhSFo/Taf6LEUJHII/AAAAAAAABg0/HL2-3rbrSEI/s400/stressed-woman-cartoon.jpg" width="355" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #b4a7d6; font-size: large;">Sirs, are you able to recognise the symptoms of a stressed woman without feeling concerned? Women under stress tend to mix their feelings with those of others' and lose their balance. They feel completely torn. Men interpret personally these symptoms and believe that they are unable to help them, which is a good reason to withdraw from the scene. Here are three symptoms of a stressed woman; try to understand them: </span></div><br />
<div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: x-large;"><strong>First symptom: overwhelming</strong></span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-size: large;">Stress intensifies the feminine sensibility. Faced to an unusual influx of emotions, a woman can no longer distinguish between her feelings and those of others and feels obliged to meet the expectations of everyone. She feels so overwhelmed and unable to find rest until everything is done. The more she forgets her needs in favour of those of others, the more she is overloaded. She continues to give and give without ever taking the time to receive. She ends up by blindly submitting to the desires of others, till exhaustion. She becomes unable to prioritise.</span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-size: large;">When a woman complains of being overwhelmed, she is simply trying to share her feelings. It will be enough to listen to her! Her husband takes distance to escape the feeling of guilt she sends back to him. He feels he disappoints her but does not know how to express it without losing face. He doesn't tell her that he wants her happiness, that he hates to see her sad, etc.., and does not even imagine that she would like to hear this. From her side, the woman becomes sure that he does not love her because his external behaviour suggests that he doesn't care and that everything is going well. The result: she feels even more alone.</span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: large;"><strong>A man should know that a stressed woman needs an attentive ear from her husband and not having solutions. </strong></span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #8e7cc3; font-size: x-large;"><strong>Second symptom: dramatising</strong></span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #b4a7d6; font-size: large;">A woman burdened always tends to dramatise. After a stressful day, a woman is able to relate all her worries and aggression on her husband as if he were the cause of all her worries. If he lets her discuss the rest of her concerns, she can generally relax. In this state, it is easy to go about unfair hurts and forget them. The man reacts similarly to stress: he is irritated easily, but if not provoked, his bad mood will go as fast as it came. A man must be able to listen without interrupting or correcting his partner's remarks.</span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #8e7cc3; font-size: large;"><strong>Under the effect of stress, a woman can only restore her balance by means of speech. If her partner shows her support and understanding, it will be enough for her to stop dramatising.</strong></span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: x-large;"><strong>Third symptom: collapsing</strong></span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #c27ba0;"><span style="font-size: large;">By accumulating tension, a woman can easily collapse abruptly. This reaction is a cry for help, but a man interprets it automatically that he failed and cannot do anything for her. He does not see that her depletion results from an imbalance and he has nothing to do with it. This excessive fatigue is the female equivalent of male folding. The more the pressure increases in a woman, the less she thinks of herself. So she needs a helping hand.</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: large;"><strong>Don't even try to give her advises or to blame her, but just listen to her and support her well. </strong></span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #b4a7d6; font-size: large;">To restore balance, a woman must first examine her feelings. If she fails to unravel them, a growing imbalance is reflected by the symptoms mentioned above. </span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #8e7cc3; font-size: large;"><strong>Sirs, in order to cure a woman from her stress, try to understand and recognise these symptoms. All a woman needs is an attentive ear and a strong support. </strong></span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: right;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><em><span style="color: #d5a6bd;"><span style="font-family: "Courier New", Courier, monospace;">According to </span>John Gray</span></em></span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-24276522234534888172011-04-09T11:27:00.000+02:002011-04-09T11:27:05.514+02:00Better Understand a Woman<marquee style="height: 29px;"><span style="color: #990000; font-size: 170%;"><strong><span style="color: #ea9999;">Next.. Sirs : try to understand women !!</span> </strong></span></marquee><br />
<div id="cboxdiv" style="line-height: 0; text-align: center;"></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-40981664763147406182011-02-20T19:39:00.002+01:002011-02-23T09:15:23.090+01:00Better Understand a Man<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: x-large;"><strong>How to Deal with a Stressed Man </strong></span></div><br />
<div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEit6BniVMQhLRbPssf17LP-W3bf6DsnKvzNcL4U3x6RC6qOKOeZfh4Rh2L8k3cWR1t_N_uzpk5pgbOf5KGeX-enZM-EbzRzqaDsxbkdMnVfY-LMgIXdebCS0l5X0mnvOp3KYAVqbBC2DTE/s1600/Stressed-man.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" j6="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEit6BniVMQhLRbPssf17LP-W3bf6DsnKvzNcL4U3x6RC6qOKOeZfh4Rh2L8k3cWR1t_N_uzpk5pgbOf5KGeX-enZM-EbzRzqaDsxbkdMnVfY-LMgIXdebCS0l5X0mnvOp3KYAVqbBC2DTE/s400/Stressed-man.jpg" width="273" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #8e7cc3; font-size: large;">Ladies, do you recognize the symptoms of a stressed man without feeling concerned? It is not easy. A man shows three main symptoms of stress that women often interpret negatively and resent: remoteness, bad temper and refolding. Women, ignoring these symptoms, tend to feel involved and exaggerate their suffering. Certainly, if women are able to interpret these symptoms correctly and understand them, they will relax and know how to help their partner find his balance. </span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: x-large;"><strong>First symptom: Remoteness</strong></span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-size: large;">In a stress situation, the first instinct of a man is to take distance and stop communication. Of course, the woman feels that his attitude is against her. She imagines that he no longer loves her. This is normal because in the eyes of a woman, this attitude reflects indifference or resentment. For a woman, the opposite happens: the more she is under pressure, the more she becomes concerned about the well-being of those she loves. If a stressed man is not conscious of his own suffering, he becomes deaf to the others and minimizes the problems of his entourage. He hinders his emotions; he rejects any attempt to help or dialogue and pretends that everything is fine.</span><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;"><em></em></span> </div><br />
<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: large;"><strong>A woman needs to know that a distant man is a man who struggles against his emotions.</strong></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: large;"><em><strong> </strong></em></span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #8e7cc3; font-size: x-large;"><strong>Second symptom: Bad Temper</strong></span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="color: #b4a7d6; font-size: large;">A worried man devotes all his energy to achieve the stated goal. If he is interrupted for another reason, he has the greatest difficulty in changing his plan. It is easier for a woman to shift her focus from one subject to another. A man, however, cannot but concentrate on one task at a time. If one disturbs his concentration, he protests. A woman will think he is abusing her patience.</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #8e7cc3; font-size: large;"><strong>Under the effect of stress, a man loses interest in everything and shows a bad mood.</strong></span></div><br />
<span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: x-large;"><strong>Third symptom: Refolding</strong></span><br />
<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #c27ba0;"><span style="font-size: large;">At the highest tension, the stressed man withdraws into himself and shows utter indifference. This is one more mystery to the woman: when she closes to herself, it's because she has decided to do so. She believes that he escapes from her deliberately for some obscure reason for revenge. In fact, this refolding is a defense mechanism that is set up when the man feels flush with painful feelings. While his wife sees a pure and simple rejection, the man just needs to be alone to solve his problem.</span></span></div><br />
<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong>Don't even try to help him;</strong></span><span style="font-size: large;"><strong> just accept and respect his solitude.</strong></span></span></div><br />
<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #b4a7d6; font-size: large;">Faced to the bad temper of a man, a woman is afraid to ask. In order to ensure his help, she must learn to ask. If she does not ask, she will obtain nothing. Once a demand is made, she must remain silent without trying to justify herself. The silence is conducive to reflection. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #8e7cc3; font-size: large;"><strong>Ladies, to cure a man from his stress, nothing is like a little love and tolerance.</strong></span></div><br />
<div style="text-align: right;"><span style="color: #8e7cc3; font-size: large;"><span style="color: #990000; font-size: x-small;"><em>To be followed ..</em></span></span><span style="color: #990000; font-size: x-small;"><em> </em></span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: right;"><span style="color: #990000; font-size: xx-small;"><em>According to John Gray</em></span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-6049295195877654922011-02-08T15:20:00.004+01:002011-02-17T12:39:01.690+01:00Better Understand a Man<marquee style="height: 32px; width: 694px;"><span style="color: #990000; font-size: 180%;"><strong>Next .. When a man is stressed ..</strong></span></marquee><br />
<div id="cboxdiv" style="line-height: 0; text-align: center;"></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-90545889443568048572011-01-09T16:59:00.002+01:002011-01-09T17:11:25.840+01:00Dangerous friendship !<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ffe599; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: x-large;"><strong>When friendship with the opposite sex becomes dangerous ..</strong></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #8e7cc3;"><br />
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<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #b4a7d6; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">Why do we seek friendship with the opposite sex? Is it because the "classical" friendship is not sufficient to meet our needs? Is it because we want to live a "different" experience, richer than what we lived with the same sex, but while remaining just "friends"? Or because we can confide with the opposite sex without being judged, and open up more easily than with one's own partner? </span><br />
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<span style="color: #ffe599; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">This difference in relationship certainly encourages people to establish friendship with the opposite sex. They interact with colleagues every day, sometimes closely and sometimes in a very personal way. One cannot help being around these people. In many cases, these are people whom we see most often than on's own partner.</span><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TSIphdJjDwI/AAAAAAAABeY/H6_6otnNevs/s1600/him.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="color: #ffe599; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><img border="0" height="200" n4="true" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TSIphdJjDwI/AAAAAAAABeY/H6_6otnNevs/s200/him.JPG" width="150" /></span></a><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="color: #ffe599;"><span style="font-size: large;">A relationship of friendship begins at a very basic level: to know each other. Before the person realises it, he / she starts to open up to the friend and expresse his / her concerns, worries and troubles (particularly those related to private life). Being a man, you give her a sympathetic ear. In appreciation, she gives you the attention and care that sometimes exceed those you receive from your own wife. You will find her so flattering and her behavior gives a good push to your ego. As for her, she feels safer with you because you show great interest in listening to her concerns and encourage her.</span></span></span><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><br />
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<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="color: #b4a7d6; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">Unconsciously, the opposite-sex friendship becomes the most important relationship in your life, even more important than your relation with your own partner. It is at this point that this "friendship" becomes a real threat to your marriage and personal life.</span><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"> </span><br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWKfP8YECVas3YKLFKYh8QgFTNYGuNNtjPwfrR9QOyVfbWyKCGonj-TlSHxvZlRz9T91pX3UL1VmIvi4ZZ-ellM0jrz8ceA0IcEi5zBaH5lWIlBpNinvqY1NYkA0QqA28u1JJ_bxlzonE/s1600/her.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><span style="color: #990000; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"></span></a><span style="color: #ffe599; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #990000;">•</span> <span lang="EN-GB" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-GB;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="color: #ffe599;">You’re physically attracted to the person, and think about him / her when you’re not at work.</span></span></span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #ffe599; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><span style="color: #990000;">•</span> You find yourself sharing personal information that you wouldn't share with someone else or even with your partner.</span></div><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #ffe599; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="color: #990000;">•</span> When you arrive at work, you start looking for this friend and you are really disappointed if he / she is not there.</span></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
<span style="color: #ffe599; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><span style="color: #990000;">•</span> You begin to create opportunities to be alone with him / her during the workday, or outside the workplace for lunch or coffee. You're ready to linger too long at your desk to see him / her.</span><br />
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<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ffe599; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"></span></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"></span></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgadyBIRB21ekvxil_0-afChy1r23DzvS324pCuQJB1TJ9trWj8x2oKY29aywFGlEZ3Q0YL77hDKSlMm3UjnmdhO3H998uhiQc56xNxTOub_8Kqios6lzl-iAdyH1fYMDY62FYAYyS8dus/s1600/her.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><span style="color: #b4a7d6; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><img border="0" height="200" n4="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgadyBIRB21ekvxil_0-afChy1r23DzvS324pCuQJB1TJ9trWj8x2oKY29aywFGlEZ3Q0YL77hDKSlMm3UjnmdhO3H998uhiQc56xNxTOub_8Kqios6lzl-iAdyH1fYMDY62FYAYyS8dus/s200/her.JPG" width="173" /></span></a><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="color: #b4a7d6;"><span style="font-size: large;">Because of these changes, to which you are completely unconscious, this relationship can take another dimension that goes beyond mere friendship. The friend finds more fulfilment and satisfaction in his / her relationship with you. Even if nothing unusual happens between you, you may have unwittingly pushed your friend not to face his / her problems that he / she should deal personally with his / her own partner. One will end up clinging to the other.</span></span></span><br />
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</span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDQj9-Ilm74h_DRsdF03FSBBu18VaKZtYyvSG3JuzhXd-3lPb1gQbUA9-RFPKVDtB5JAP5f4lUKzU6VD09ZaFZRYzY9HSst0Uq4aGqli2JTAjSBze0wr5fqBK5k5Ji3ZF4i8p1MjCTVis/s1600/him.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><img border="0" height="200" n4="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDQj9-Ilm74h_DRsdF03FSBBu18VaKZtYyvSG3JuzhXd-3lPb1gQbUA9-RFPKVDtB5JAP5f4lUKzU6VD09ZaFZRYzY9HSst0Uq4aGqli2JTAjSBze0wr5fqBK5k5Ji3ZF4i8p1MjCTVis/s200/him.JPG" width="150" /></span></a><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #b4a7d6;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"></span><span style="color: #ffe599;"><span style="font-size: large;">Certainly, many persist on their friendships with the opposite sex in which nothing ever happened and nothing will never happen between them. Evidence such as: "<em>we're just friends</em>"; "<em>he doesn't represent anything for me</em>"; "<em>my best friends are all of the opposite sex</em>" confirm that opposite-sex friendship is as normal and natural as the same-sex friendship and is not likely to take a romantic dimension. However, if one asks the following questions: Can you be sure that the other feels the same way as you do? That he / she sees this relationship in the same perspective as yours? That your emotions will not evolve differently in the future? Not always! Living a platonic friendship between man and woman is a major issue, a debate that remains open ..</span></span></span></span></span></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: right;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://www.blogcatalog.com/discuss/entry/man-woman-just-friends"><em><span style="color: #990000; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: xx-small;">For further reading, here are some evidences </span></em></a></div></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-65467035100811724862010-12-31T22:20:00.007+01:002011-01-07T16:47:46.790+01:00Man .. Woman .. Dangerous friendship<marquee style="height: 29px;"><span style="color: #990000;"><span style="font-size: 180%;"><strong>Next .. When friendship with the opposite</strong></span><span style="font-size: 180%;"><strong> sex becomes dangerous ..</strong></span></span></marquee><br />
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</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="color: #ead1dc;"><strong></strong></span></span><span style="color: #741b47;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="font-size: large;">When a man likes a woman, he imagines her naked. When a woman likes a man, she imagines him at his best. These are human beings.</span></span></span><br />
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</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #741b47; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: x-large;"><strong>Selfishness..</strong></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">When someone calls you for something very important, it's is obviously important for him ... this is selfishness.</span><br />
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</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: x-large;"><strong>Wisdom..</strong></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #741b47; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">When your wife insists on buying fresh fish and not frozen and keeps it carefully in the freezer for a few weeks in order to enjoy the "fresh fish" later ... this is wisdom.</span><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><br />
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<span style="color: #c27ba0; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">A man sought all his life the perfect woman to marry her, and when he finally found her, 40 years later, he discovered that she too was looking for the perfect man who was not him ... this is relativity.</span><br />
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</div></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #741b47; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">A beautiful woman asked an African archaeologist to marry her in order to make the humanity miracle child: who has the beauty of his mother and the intelligence of his father. However, the archaeologist has refused for fear that the child might have the beauty of his father and the intelligence of his mother and thus become the stupidity of humanity. This is awareness.</span><span style="color: #741b47; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"></span><span style="color: #c27ba0;"><strong><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: x-large;"></span></strong></span> </div><div style="text-align: justify;"></div><div style="text-align: justify;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #c27ba0;"><strong><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: x-large;">*-*-*-*-*-*</span></strong></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">If you cannot look forward because your future is dark .. or backward because your past is painful .. live your present as it's the only real moment. This is the personal development ...</span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-19699619915301394722010-12-06T19:33:00.002+01:002010-12-06T19:33:54.552+01:00How do you define ..<marquee style="height: 29px;"><span style="color: #990000; font-size: 180%;"><strong><span style="color: #f1c232;">Next .. some essential definitions in life ..</span></strong></span></marquee><br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQtVin6ANLpZWW9BzuCw9nWeC-lsT__nC8v98f6Xf8td-EQttLoO3cSn9AEy9UXdS7anwf5IU_ZofCWPu_qyES-jj-QJR2uCA_FPnrEf9x_2tmw2nxi4gQvEXEcfhgqOMadMt3kDih5nc/s1600/pouf-lilipopart-cubes-2502494_1350.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" nx="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQtVin6ANLpZWW9BzuCw9nWeC-lsT__nC8v98f6Xf8td-EQttLoO3cSn9AEy9UXdS7anwf5IU_ZofCWPu_qyES-jj-QJR2uCA_FPnrEf9x_2tmw2nxi4gQvEXEcfhgqOMadMt3kDih5nc/s320/pouf-lilipopart-cubes-2502494_1350.jpg" style="height: 320px; width: 429px;" width="429" /></a></div><br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: white; font-size: large;"><em>Here is an <span lang="EN-GB" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 18pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: FR;">interesting </span>test, which needs some imagination in order to learn to know yourself as well as the others. You will need a paper and a pen to write down what you imagine so that you won't forget it.</em></span><br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TMR6AYbgIBI/AAAAAAAABcQ/f3PfvMAfHtU/s1600/desert.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="123" nx="true" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TMR6AYbgIBI/AAAAAAAABcQ/f3PfvMAfHtU/s200/desert.jpg" style="height: 123px; width: 194px;" width="194" /></a></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TMsY-_WSE_I/AAAAAAAABdI/KC-flVbybQ0/s1600/Ball.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" nx="true" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TMsY-_WSE_I/AAAAAAAABdI/KC-flVbybQ0/s1600/Ball.gif" /></a><span style="color: #ea9999;"><span style="font-size: large;"> </span></span><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TMR6AYbgIBI/AAAAAAAABcQ/f3PfvMAfHtU/s1600/desert.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"></span></a><span style="color: #f9cb9c; font-size: large;">Imagine a desert. In it there is a cube. How is the cube? (big, small) What is its colour? Is it transparent or not? Is it made of wood, metal, glass, etc? Is it in the middle of desert or in a corner? What is it made of? Do you see in 3d or not? Is it floating or on the ground? </span><br />
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</div></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TMwUpzfXYnI/AAAAAAAABdY/ZyVrSvky9Z4/s1600/Ball.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" nx="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TMwUpzfXYnI/AAAAAAAABdY/ZyVrSvky9Z4/s1600/Ball.gif" /></a><span style="color: #f9cb9c; font-size: large;">Imagine a ladder. What is its colour? Is it far from the cube, near or leaning on the cube? Does it have many ranges or few?</span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TMwUpzfXYnI/AAAAAAAABdY/ZyVrSvky9Z4/s1600/Ball.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="color: #f9cb9c;"><img border="0" nx="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TMwUpzfXYnI/AAAAAAAABdY/ZyVrSvky9Z4/s1600/Ball.gif" /></span></a><span style="color: #f9cb9c; font-size: large;">You see a horse, how is it wild or domestic? Is it near the cube or far? Is it beautiful or not? Does it run, stand still, or is it tied?</span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TMwUpzfXYnI/AAAAAAAABdY/ZyVrSvky9Z4/s1600/Ball.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="color: #f9cb9c;"><img border="0" nx="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TMwUpzfXYnI/AAAAAAAABdY/ZyVrSvky9Z4/s1600/Ball.gif" /></span></a><span style="color: #f9cb9c; font-size: large;">Then imagine a storm. Is it near the cube or far? Is it big or small? Is it strong or weak? Is it passing by or staying? Is it near the cube or far from it?</span></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #f9cb9c;"><br />
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<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="color: #f6b26b;"><span style="font-size: large;"></span></span><span style="color: #e69138; font-size: large;"><strong><em>The cube represents you!</em></strong></span></div></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #f6b26b;"><strong><span style="color: #cc0000;">. </span></strong>If the cube is made out of something solid and strong, it means that you are a strong person. If it is soft, it means that you can be easily influenced and you are emotional. </span></span></div></div><span style="color: #f6b26b;"><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #990000; font-size: large;"><em>How you think about the cube represents how you think about yourself. </em></span></div><br />
<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ea9999;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #cc0000;">.</span><span style="color: #f6b26b;"> </span></strong><span style="color: #f6b26b;">Cube on the ground = you are down to earth.</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #f6b26b;"><strong><span style="color: #cc0000;">.</span> </strong>Floating cube = you are a dreamer.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #f6b26b;"><span style="color: #cc0000;"><strong>.</strong> </span>You see the flat side of the cube = you have a shallow personality.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #f6b26b;"><strong><span style="color: #cc0000;">.</span></strong> You see the cube in 3D = you have a deep personality. </span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #f6b26b;"><strong><span style="color: #cc0000;">.</span></strong> Cube in the centre = you like the attention and you like to be praised. </span></span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #f6b26b; font-size: large;">The colour of the cube represents your personality. In general, if the cube is light you are a positive person and the darker it is the more negative you are. However it may not always be so, you should always pay attention to how you feel about the colour. If you like the colour then you are a likeable personality, it the colour seems cold to you, you seem distant to people. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #f1c232;"><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Meanings of the cube </span></span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">c</span><span style="color: #e69138;">o</span><span style="color: #6aa84f;">l</span><span style="color: #3d85c6;">o</span><span style="color: #a64d79;">u</span><span style="color: #990000;">r</span><span style="color: white;">s</span><span style="color: #f1c232;">:</span></span></span><span style="font-size: large;"> </span></strong></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #cc0000;">.</span> </strong><span style="color: #444444;">Black</span> <span style="color: #444444;">= authority, elegance, sophistication. It can also mean the dark side of the personality.</span></span><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #cccccc;"><strong><span style="color: #cc0000;">. </span></strong>White</span> <span style="color: #cccccc;">=</span> innocence, non-judgemental personality, objectivity, lack of strong opinions. </span><br />
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</div><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #cc0000;"><strong><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">.</span> </span></strong></span><span style="color: #990000;">Red = dominance, power, love and energy. If your cube is red it also can mean that you are an attention seeker.</span><span style="color: #cc0000;"> </span></span><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #f1c232;"><strong><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">.</span> </span></strong>Yellow</span> <span style="color: #f1c232;">= shows that the person loves attention and would do almost anything to get the attention. If this is your colour, you may seem too overbearing to some people so they may avoid you. This colour also represents playfulness, optimism and energy.</span></span><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #6aa84f;"><strong><span style="color: #cc0000;">. </span></strong>Green</span> <span style="color: #6aa84f;">= compassion, prosperity, money, and vitality. </span></span><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #45818e;"><strong><span style="color: #cc0000;">. </span></strong>Blue</span> <span style="color: #45818e;">= knowledge, loyalty and calmness. </span></span><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #a64d79;"><strong><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">.</span> </span></strong>Purple</span> <span style="color: #a64d79;">= luxury, wealth, and sophistication. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #783f04;"><strong><span style="color: #cc0000;">. </span></strong>Brown</span> <span style="color: #783f04;">= stability, it's the most common cube colour among men. </span></span></div><span style="font-size: large;"></span><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #cc0000;">. </span></strong><span style="color: #76a5af;">The colour of the ladder represents the personality that most of your friends have. You can check the meaning of the ladder colour in the cube colour description. </span></span></div><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #cc0000;">. </span></strong><span style="color: #f4cccc;">The distance between the cube and the horse shows how close or distant you are in relationships. How the horse behaves also shows what kind of partner you would like to have. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #cc0000;">. </span></strong><span style="color: #e69138;">If it is a big storm, then you always try to make a drama out of something. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #e69138;"><strong><span style="color: #cc0000;">. </span></strong>If the storm is small and far away from the cube, it means that you are a calm and positive person and you don't like being angry and try to quickly shift your mood if you notice that anger gets activated in you. </span></span><br />
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</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd;">We all need friendship. Friendship can give us something that we cannot get from our family. However, when we speak about friendship, do we refer to the man-man, woman-woman or man-woman friendship? Is it the same thing? Why do we seek friendship with the opposite sex? Before answering these questions, the person that you consider "friend" is really just a firend? Watch his / her behaviour, his / her speech and especially the body language which never lies. Here are some clues that show you that the other is not just "friend":</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
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<span style="color: #c27ba0;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="color: #741b47;"><strong>· </strong></span> </span>He calls you simply to hear your voice.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #c27ba0;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #741b47; font-size: x-large;"><strong>·</strong></span> If you mention another man, he becomes very quiet and moody and is keen to change the subject.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="color: #d5a6bd;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="color: #ea9999;">She.. just a friend ?</span> </span></span></strong></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: x-large;"><strong>·</strong></span> Pay attention to her reactions to you when you are with her. A girl who wants to be more than just friends will usually try to stay close to you. Read her body language. Girls usually smile a lot around boys they like.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: x-large;"><strong>·</strong></span><span style="color: #a64d79;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: x-large;"> </span><span style="font-size: large;">She offers you an irregular level of eye contact. </span></span></div><br />
<div align="justify"><span style="color: #a64d79;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #c27ba0;"><strong><span style="color: #741b47; font-size: x-large;">· </span></strong>Think about her availability when you need support. If she always answers your phone calls, replies to your text messages and shows up at important events in your life, chances are, she wants to begin a relationship with you.</span></span></span></div><div align="justify"><br />
<span style="color: #c27ba0;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #741b47; font-size: x-large;"><strong>·</strong></span> Consider the way she acts when you are around other girls. Jealousy is an almost sure sign that the girl you like wants to be more than just friends. She may get an upset look on her face or try to jump into every conversation that you have with other girls if she is jealous of the attention you are showing the other girl.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Friends around you can tell when something is going on and have no doubt on the changes taking place in your relationship with your friend. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">However, the question is, why do we seek friendship with the opposite sex?</span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-53625496882402198092010-08-15T22:54:00.004+02:002010-08-17T14:14:32.251+02:00Men .. Women .. just friends!<center><marquee behavior="alternate" direction="up" scrollamount="2" style="height: 155px; width: 494px;"><span style="font-size: 200px;"><b><span style="color: #ffd966; font-size: x-large;">Soon ..</span></b></span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-size: large;">Some emotions that are part of the feeling of love cannot be regarded as an expression of true love. On the contrary, each of them negates the other. We take them as a proof of love but they are really what kills it. Do you know them?</span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TC8PAIQ_8PI/AAAAAAAABaE/n9Iwuat2Zmk/s1600/us_033008.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><span style="color: #9fc5e8;"><img border="0" height="200" rw="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TC8PAIQ_8PI/AAAAAAAABaE/n9Iwuat2Zmk/s200/us_033008.jpg" width="168" /></span></a><span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Being dependent on the other is to be ready to do anything lest to be facing the insupportable emptiness in oneself that occurs when the other moves away. It's just like a child who feels alive and safe when he is connected to his mother. Dependence in love talks about love, but unrequited love, hurt love. Dependent love interprets, in adulthood, the desire to repair the deep wounds of childhood, where one was malnourished emotionally. But the repair is doomed to failure because the total and permanent fusion with the other is impossible.</span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TC8P396hICI/AAAAAAAABaM/5EgS53X4SIQ/s1600/cartoon-couple-in-love.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="187" rw="true" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TC8P396hICI/AAAAAAAABaM/5EgS53X4SIQ/s200/cartoon-couple-in-love.jpg" width="200" /></a></div><span style="color: #f4cccc; font-size: large;">The romantic relationship depends on passionate feelings. That is to say: "this is the big love, the true one", both the feelings and emotions it provokes are strong. The temporality changes: there is time 'before' the meeting, an empty past of real meaning, and this short present, which destroys everything in its path. This love is driven by necessity, not desire, fed by the need and waiting; it is consumed immediately after being consumed. Words are a source of conflict. This love is of those who fear to reveal themselves to the other. Passion can hide the emptiness, difficulty or misunderstandings of the relationship.</span><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: x-large;"><strong>Possessivity</strong></span><span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: x-large;"><strong> :</strong></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
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<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TC8ZdqwX_xI/AAAAAAAABa0/wuzySBw76zY/s1600/overlove.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" rw="true" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/TC8ZdqwX_xI/AAAAAAAABa0/wuzySBw76zY/s200/overlove.JPG" width="159" /></a></div><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Having the desire to possession is one component of love, but when it is central and permanent, it is not love that is in questions, but rather fears. Possession is being unable to love unless one has his beloved available. We may not feel the control of the other, but unsupportable fear shots up from the depths of the psyche. "He is part of me, I cannot let him go away". The possessive, unlike the addict, does not seek to merge with the other as he considers him to be part of him, like a body organ. Possessiveness is older than jealousy. When the possessive loses control of the other, he feels threatened in his own life, as if his partner left bloodless, drained of his lifeblood.</span><br />
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<div style="text-align: right;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><span style="color: white;">According to </span><em><span style="color: white;">Psychology</span> </em></span></span></div><br />
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</div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-20123786080164470902010-05-09T19:13:00.001+02:002010-05-09T19:33:25.077+02:00How do People Really See You?<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #f6b26b; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: x-large;">Test your present personality</span></strong><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ead1dc; font-size: large;">The following is an accurate test of personality. It helps corporations get better insight concerning their employees and in their perspective employees. It takes only a few minutes. </span><br />
<span style="color: #ead1dc; font-size: large;"></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">This test idicates the answers for who you are "now" and not who you were in the past. Have pen or pencil and paper ready. Take this test and try to find your profile. </span><br />
<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;"></span><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-size: large;">You have only 10 Simple questions. Keep a track of your letter answers to each question. Are you r</span><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-size: large;">eady? Begin the test.</span></div><br />
<span style="color: #fff2cc; font-size: large;">1. When do you feel your best..</span><br />
<span style="color: #ffe599; font-size: large;">A) in the morning </span><br />
<span style="color: #ffd966; font-size: large;">B) during the afternoon and early evening </span><br />
<span style="color: #f1c232; font-size: large;">C) late at night </span><br />
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<span style="color: #741b47; font-size: large;"> <span style="color: #ead1dc;">2.. You usually walk...</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">A) fairly fast, with long steps </span><br />
<span style="color: #c27ba0; font-size: large;">B) fairly fast, with little steps </span><br />
<span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: large;">C) less fast head up, looking the world in the face</span><br />
<span style="color: #741b47; font-size: large;">D) less fast, head down </span><br />
<span style="color: #741b47; font-size: large;">E) very slowly</span><br />
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<span style="color: #fce5cd; font-size: large;">3. When talking to people you....</span><br />
<span style="color: #f9cb9c; font-size: large;">A) stand with your arms folded </span><br />
<span style="color: #f6b26b; font-size: large;">B) have your hands clasped </span><br />
<span style="color: #e69138; font-size: large;">C) have one or both your hands on your hips </span><br />
<span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;">D) touch or push the person to whom you are talking</span><br />
<span style="color: #783f04; font-size: large;">E) play with your ear, touch your chin, or smooth your hair </span><br />
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<span style="color: #d0e0e3; font-size: large;">4. When relaxing, you sit with...</span><br />
<span style="color: #a2c4c9; font-size: large;">A) your knees bent with your legs neatly side by side </span><br />
<span style="color: #76a5af; font-size: large;">B) your legs crossed </span><br />
<span style="color: #45818e; font-size: large;">C) your legs stretched out or straight </span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c; font-size: large;">D) one leg curled under you</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d9ead3; font-size: large;">5. When something really amuses you, you react with... </span><br />
<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">A) big appreciated laugh </span><br />
<span style="color: #93c47d; font-size: large;">B) a laugh, but not a loud one </span><br />
<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">C) a quiet chuckle </span><br />
<span style="color: #38761d; font-size: large;">D) a sheepish smile </span><br />
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<span style="color: #cfe2f3; font-size: large;">6. When you go to a party or social gathering you... </span><br />
<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">A) make a loud entrance so everyone notices you </span><br />
<span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-size: large;">B) make a quiet entrance, looking around for someone you know </span><br />
<span style="color: #3d85c6; font-size: large;">C) make the quietest entrance, trying to stay unnoticed</span><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #d9d2e9; font-size: large;">7. You're working very hard,concentrating hard, and you're interrupted... </span></div><span style="color: #b4a7d6; font-size: large;">A) welcome the break </span><br />
<span style="color: #8e7cc3; font-size: large;">B) feel extremely irritated</span><br />
<span style="color: #674ea7; font-size: large;">C) vary between these two extremes</span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">8. Which of the following colors do you like most... </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #e69138;">A)</span> <span style="color: #cc0000;">Red</span> or <span style="color: #e69138;">orange</span> </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #444444;">B)</span> <span style="color: #444444;">black </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #9fc5e8;">C)</span> <span style="color: #f1c232;">yellow</span> or <span style="color: #9fc5e8;">light blue</span> </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #6aa84f;">D)</span> <span style="color: #6aa84f;">green</span> </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #674ea7;">E)</span> <span style="color: #073763;">dark blue</span> or <span style="color: #a64d79;"><span style="color: #674ea7;">purple</span> </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: white;">F)</span> <span style="color: white;">white</span> </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #666666;">G)</span> <span style="color: #783f04;">brown</span> or <span style="color: #999999;">gray</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #ead1dc; font-size: large;">9. When you are in bed at night, in those last few moments before going to sleep you are...</span><br />
<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">A) stretched out on your back </span><br />
<span style="color: #c27ba0; font-size: large;">B) stretched out face down on your stomach</span><br />
<span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: large;">C) on your side, slightly curled</span><br />
<span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: large;">D) with your head on one arm</span><br />
<span style="color: #741b47; font-size: large;">E) with your head under the covers</span><br />
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<span style="color: #fce5cd; font-size: large;">10. You often dream that you are...</span><br />
<span style="color: #fce5cd; font-size: large;">A) falling</span><br />
<span style="color: #f9cb9c; font-size: large;">B) fighting or struggling</span><br />
<span style="color: #f6b26b; font-size: large;">C) searching for something or somebody</span><br />
<span style="color: #e69138; font-size: large;">D) flying or floating </span><br />
<span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;">E) you usually have dreamless sleep</span><br />
<span style="color: #783f04; font-size: large;">F) your dreams are always pleasant</span><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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<span style="color: #d0e0e3; font-size: large;">This is the result. Count your points : </span><br />
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<span style="color: #d9ead3; font-size: large;">1. (a) 2 (b) 4 (c) 6 </span><br />
<span style="color: #d9ead3; font-size: large;">2. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 7 (d) 2 (e) 1 </span><br />
<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">3. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 5 (d) 7 (e) 6 </span><br />
<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">4. (a) 4 (b) 6 (c) 2 (d) 1 </span><br />
<span style="color: #93c47d; font-size: large;">5. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 3 (d) 5 (e) 2 </span><br />
<span style="color: #93c47d; font-size: large;">6. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 2 </span><br />
<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">7. (a) 6 (b) 2 (c) 4</span><br />
<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">8. (a) 6 (b) 7 (c) 5 (d) 4 (e) 3 (f) 2 (g) 1 </span><br />
<span style="color: #38761d; font-size: large;">9. (a) 7 (b) 6 (c) 4 (d) 2 (e ) 1 </span><br />
<span style="color: #38761d; font-size: large;">10. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 3 (d) 5 (e) 6 (f) 1 </span><br />
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<span style="color: #ead1dc; font-size: large;">Now add up the total number of points. Here are the 6 profiles: </span><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ead1dc; font-size: large;">- Over 60 points : Others see you as someone they should handle with care'. You're seen as vain, self-centered, and who is extremely dominant. Others may admire you, wishing they could be more like you, but don't always trust you, hesitating to become too deeply involved with you. </span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ead1dc; font-size: large;">- 51 to 60 points : Others see you as an exciting, highly volatile, rather impulsive personality, a natural leader, who'squick to make decisions, though not always the right ones. They see you as bold and adventuresome, someone who will try anything once, someone who takes chances and enjoys an adventure. They enjoy being in your company because of the excitement you radiate. </span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">- 41 to 50 points : Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing, practical, and always interesting, someone who's constantly in the center of attention, but sufficiently well balanced not to let it go to their head. They also see you as kind, considerate, and understanding, someone who'll always cheer them up and help them out. </span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">- 31 to 40 points : Others see you as sensible,cautious, careful practical. They see you as clever, gifted,or talented, but modest. Not a person who makes friends too quickly or easily, but someone who's extremely loyal to friends you do make and who expects the same loyalty in return. Those who really get to know you, realize it takes a lot to shake your trust in your friends, but equally that it takes you a long time to get over if that trust is ever broken. </span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-size: large;">- 21 to 30 points : Your friends see you as painstaking and fussy. They see you as very cautious, extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder. It would really surprise them if you ever did something impulsively or on the spur of the moment, expecting you to examine everything carefully from every angle and then, usually decide against it. They think this reaction is caused partly by your careful nature. </span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: large;">- Under 21 points : People think you are shy, nervous, and indecisive, someone who needs looking after, who always wants someone else to make the decisions and who doesn't want to get involved with anyone or anything! They see you as a worrier who always sees problems that don't exist. Some people think you're boring. Only those who know you well, know that you aren't. </span></div><br />
<div style="text-align: right;"><span style="color: #ead1dc;">A real test given by the Human Relations Dept.</span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Dr. Phil</span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-6375760894646916662010-05-04T21:46:00.130+02:002010-05-09T19:08:33.308+02:00How do people see you really?<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
<strong><span style="color: #f6b26b; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: x-large;">Test your present personality</span></strong><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S-B7Ik5j7hI/AAAAAAAABYY/v0Qy5FejeMY/s1600/heads2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="301" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S-B7Ik5j7hI/AAAAAAAABYY/v0Qy5FejeMY/s400/heads2.jpg" tt="true" width="400" /></a></div></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ead1dc; font-size: large;">The following is an accurate test of personality. It helps corporations get better insight concerning their employees and in their perspective employees. It takes only a few minutes. </span><br />
<span style="color: #ead1dc; font-size: large;"></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">This test idicates the answers for who you are "now" and not who you were in the past. Have pen or pencil and paper ready. Take this test and try to find your profile. </span><br />
<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;"></span><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-size: large;">You have only 10 Simple questions. Keep a track of your letter answers to each question. Are you r</span><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-size: large;">eady? Begin the test.</span></div><br />
<span style="color: #fff2cc; font-size: large;">1. When do you feel your best..</span><br />
<span style="color: #ffe599; font-size: large;">A) in the morning </span><br />
<span style="color: #ffd966; font-size: large;">B) during the afternoon and early evening </span><br />
<span style="color: #f1c232; font-size: large;">C) late at night </span><br />
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<span style="color: #741b47; font-size: large;"> <span style="color: #ead1dc;">2.. You usually walk...</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">A) fairly fast, with long steps </span><br />
<span style="color: #c27ba0; font-size: large;">B) fairly fast, with little steps </span><br />
<span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: large;">C) less fast head up, looking the world in the face</span><br />
<span style="color: #741b47; font-size: large;">D) less fast, head down </span><br />
<span style="color: #741b47; font-size: large;">E) very slowly</span><br />
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<span style="color: #fce5cd; font-size: large;">3. When talking to people you....</span><br />
<span style="color: #f9cb9c; font-size: large;">A) stand with your arms folded </span><br />
<span style="color: #f6b26b; font-size: large;">B) have your hands clasped </span><br />
<span style="color: #e69138; font-size: large;">C) have one or both your hands on your hips </span><br />
<span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;">D) touch or push the person to whom you are talking</span><br />
<span style="color: #783f04; font-size: large;">E) play with your ear, touch your chin, or smooth your hair </span><br />
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<span style="color: #d0e0e3; font-size: large;">4. When relaxing, you sit with...</span><br />
<span style="color: #a2c4c9; font-size: large;">A) your knees bent with your legs neatly side by side </span><br />
<span style="color: #76a5af; font-size: large;">B) your legs crossed </span><br />
<span style="color: #45818e; font-size: large;">C) your legs stretched out or straight </span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c; font-size: large;">D) one leg curled under you</span><br />
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<span style="color: #d9ead3; font-size: large;">5. When something really amuses you, you react with... </span><br />
<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">A) big appreciated laugh </span><br />
<span style="color: #93c47d; font-size: large;">B) a laugh, but not a loud one </span><br />
<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">C) a quiet chuckle </span><br />
<span style="color: #38761d; font-size: large;">D) a sheepish smile </span><br />
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<span style="color: #cfe2f3; font-size: large;">6. When you go to a party or social gathering you... </span><br />
<span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">A) make a loud entrance so everyone notices you </span><br />
<span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-size: large;">B) make a quiet entrance, looking around for someone you know </span><br />
<span style="color: #3d85c6; font-size: large;">C) make the quietest entrance, trying to stay unnoticed</span><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #d9d2e9; font-size: large;">7. You're working very hard,concentrating hard, and you're interrupted... </span></div><span style="color: #b4a7d6; font-size: large;">A) welcome the break </span><br />
<span style="color: #8e7cc3; font-size: large;">B) feel extremely irritated</span><br />
<span style="color: #674ea7; font-size: large;">C) vary between these two extremes</span><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000; font-size: large;">8. Which of the following colors do you like most... </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #e69138;">A)</span> <span style="color: #cc0000;">Red</span> or <span style="color: #e69138;">orange</span> </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #444444;">B)</span> <span style="color: #444444;">black </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #9fc5e8;">C)</span> <span style="color: #f1c232;">yellow</span> or <span style="color: #9fc5e8;">light blue</span> </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #6aa84f;">D)</span> <span style="color: #6aa84f;">green</span> </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #674ea7;">E)</span> <span style="color: #073763;">dark blue</span> or <span style="color: #a64d79;"><span style="color: #674ea7;">purple</span> </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: white;">F)</span> <span style="color: white;">white</span> </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #666666;">G)</span> <span style="color: #783f04;">brown</span> or <span style="color: #999999;">gray</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #ead1dc; font-size: large;">9. When you are in bed at night, in those last few moments before going to sleep you are...</span><br />
<span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">A) stretched out on your back </span><br />
<span style="color: #c27ba0; font-size: large;">B) stretched out face down on your stomach</span><br />
<span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: large;">C) on your side, slightly curled</span><br />
<span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: large;">D) with your head on one arm</span><br />
<span style="color: #741b47; font-size: large;">E) with your head under the covers</span><br />
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<span style="color: #fce5cd; font-size: large;">10. You often dream that you are...</span><br />
<span style="color: #fce5cd; font-size: large;">A) falling</span><br />
<span style="color: #f9cb9c; font-size: large;">B) fighting or struggling</span><br />
<span style="color: #f6b26b; font-size: large;">C) searching for something or somebody</span><br />
<span style="color: #e69138; font-size: large;">D) flying or floating </span><br />
<span style="color: #b45f06; font-size: large;">E) you usually have dreamless sleep</span><br />
<span style="color: #783f04; font-size: large;">F) your dreams are always pleasant</span><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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<span style="color: #d0e0e3; font-size: large;">This is the result. Count your points : </span><br />
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<span style="color: #d9ead3; font-size: large;">1. (a) 2 (b) 4 (c) 6 </span><br />
<span style="color: #d9ead3; font-size: large;">2. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 7 (d) 2 (e) 1 </span><br />
<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">3. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 5 (d) 7 (e) 6 </span><br />
<span style="color: #b6d7a8; font-size: large;">4. (a) 4 (b) 6 (c) 2 (d) 1 </span><br />
<span style="color: #93c47d; font-size: large;">5. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 3 (d) 5 (e) 2 </span><br />
<span style="color: #93c47d; font-size: large;">6. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 2 </span><br />
<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">7. (a) 6 (b) 2 (c) 4</span><br />
<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-size: large;">8. (a) 6 (b) 7 (c) 5 (d) 4 (e) 3 (f) 2 (g) 1 </span><br />
<span style="color: #38761d; font-size: large;">9. (a) 7 (b) 6 (c) 4 (d) 2 (e ) 1 </span><br />
<span style="color: #38761d; font-size: large;">10. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 3 (d) 5 (e) 6 (f) 1 </span><br />
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<span style="color: #ead1dc; font-size: large;">Now add up the total number of points. Here are the 6 profiles: </span><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ead1dc; font-size: large;">- Over 60 points : Others see you as someone they should handle with care'. You're seen as vain, self-centered, and who is extremely dominant. Others may admire you, wishing they could be more like you, but don't always trust you, hesitating to become too deeply involved with you. </span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ead1dc; font-size: large;">- 51 to 60 points : Others see you as an exciting, highly volatile, rather impulsive personality, a natural leader, who'squick to make decisions, though not always the right ones. They see you as bold and adventuresome, someone who will try anything once, someone who takes chances and enjoys an adventure. They enjoy being in your company because of the excitement you radiate. </span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">- 41 to 50 points : Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing, practical, and always interesting, someone who's constantly in the center of attention, but sufficiently well balanced not to let it go to their head. They also see you as kind, considerate, and understanding, someone who'll always cheer them up and help them out. </span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">- 31 to 40 points : Others see you as sensible,cautious, careful practical. They see you as clever, gifted,or talented, but modest. Not a person who makes friends too quickly or easily, but someone who's extremely loyal to friends you do make and who expects the same loyalty in return. Those who really get to know you, realize it takes a lot to shake your trust in your friends, but equally that it takes you a long time to get over if that trust is ever broken. </span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #c27ba0; font-size: large;">- 21 to 30 points : Your friends see you as painstaking and fussy. They see you as very cautious, extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder. It would really surprise them if you ever did something impulsively or on the spur of the moment, expecting you to examine everything carefully from every angle and then, usually decide against it. They think this reaction is caused partly by your careful nature. </span></div><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: large;">- Under 21 points : People think you are shy, nervous, and indecisive, someone who needs looking after, who always wants someone else to make the decisions and who doesn't want to get involved with anyone or anything! They see you as a worrier who always sees problems that don't exist. Some people think you're boring. Only those who know you well, know that you aren't. </span></div><br />
<div style="text-align: right;"><span style="color: #ead1dc;">A real test given by the Human Relations Dept.</span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span style="color: #ead1dc;">Dr. Phil</span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-62046032520796123382010-02-19T21:34:00.007+01:002010-02-23T16:21:52.375+01:00A Guide to Women's Language .. for Men !!<div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">Actually, a woman uses the same words and expressions as men but with a slight difference: they do not always use the 'good' words to say what 'needs' to be said exactly. A woman uses expressions that give generally 'different' meaning from their true signification, or quite the opposite, or else a meaning that is unrelated to the real signification of words. Rarely the words she uses really express their true meaning. In other words, when a woman speaks, what she says is off with what it means. A man when he listens to a woman, he understands what she meant literally, but not what is behind the lines. Are you lost? That's why, I invite you to explore this small guide that shows the path to understanding the language of women. </span></div><br />
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<div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s1600/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></span></strong></a></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd;">You want =</span> </span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="color: #b4a7d6; font-size: large;"><span style="color: #ea9999;">You wnat</span></span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div align="justify" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><strong><span style="font-size: large;"> <span style="color: #d5a6bd;">We need =</span> </span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #ea9999;"><span style="color: #b4a7d6;"> </span></span><span style="color: #ea9999;">I want</span></span></strong><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S3xVTTCY--I/AAAAAAAABXw/mOfTYb6qirU/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S3xVTTCY--I/AAAAAAAABXw/mOfTYb6qirU/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></span></strong></a></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #d5a6bd;">It's your decision =</span> </strong></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #b4a7d6; font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #ea9999;">The correct decision should be taken right now.</span> </strong></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></span></strong></a><span style="color: #ea9999;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S3hSiJ1boSI/AAAAAAAABXY/mYCp-Ff_bJ8/s1600-h/Forward_2.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong></strong></span></a></span><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #ea9999;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd;">Do what you want =</span> </span> </span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><strong><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">You will pay for this later.</span></strong><br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></span></strong></a><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #d5a6bd;">We need to talk. =</span> </strong></span></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong>I need to complain.</strong></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: x-large;"></span></strong><br />
<div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a></span></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S32he_GQl1I/AAAAAAAABYA/k8Kgxlw9MwA/s1600/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S32he_GQl1I/AAAAAAAABYA/k8Kgxlw9MwA/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><strong><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><span style="color: #c27ba0;">Of course yes, it's clear. =</span> </span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #ea9999;">Of course no, it's clear.</span></strong></span></div><br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #c27ba0;">I am not angry. =</span> </span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><strong><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">Of course I am angry.</span></strong></div></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><strong><span style="font-size: large;"></span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #ea9999;"><span style="color: #c27ba0;">This kitchen is uncomfortable. =</span> </span> </span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><strong><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">I want a new house. </span></strong></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #c27ba0;">Do you love me ? =</span> </strong></span></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">I am going to ask for something expensive</span></strong><br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></span></strong></a><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #c27ba0;">How much do you love me ? =</span> </strong></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong>I did something today that you won't like.</strong></span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div></div><div align="center" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="font-size: large;"></span></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></span></a><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #ea9999;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd;">I'll be ready in a minute. =</span> </span> </span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #b4a7d6;"><span style="color: #ea9999;">Take off your shoes and watch tv.</span> </span></span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;"></span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></span></a><strong><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;">Do you find me fat ? =</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">Tell me that I am beautiful.</span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #d5a6bd;">You need to learn to communicate. =</span> </strong></span></div><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong>Just agree with me.</strong></span><br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><strong><span style="color: #b4a7d6; font-size: large;"></span></strong> <strong><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #ea9999;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd;">Are you listening to me ! ? =</span> </span> </span></strong></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><strong><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"> Too late, you are dead.</span></strong></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;"></span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #d5a6bd;">I am sorry. =</span> </strong></span></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong>You'll be sorry.</strong></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #a64d79; font-size: x-large;"><strong></strong></span><br />
<div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a></span><strong><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"></span></strong></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong></strong></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></span></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><strong><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;"></span></strong></a><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong><span style="background-color: black; color: #d5a6bd;">Do you like this recipe? =</span> </strong></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong>It's easy, so better for you to get used to it.</strong></span><br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><strong><span style="color: #d5a6bd; font-size: large;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></span></strong></a><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd;">I am not crying ! =</span><span style="color: #ea9999;"> </span> </span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">Yes, I am crying because I find it important.</span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></span></strong></a><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #d5a6bd;">In answer to the question «What's wrong ?", if she says :</span> </strong></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;"></span></strong></a><span style="color: #ea9999;"></span></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></span></a><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #d5a6bd;">Nothing.=</span> </strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong>Everything.</strong></span></div></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;"></span></strong></a><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S3hSiJ1boSI/AAAAAAAABXY/mYCp-Ff_bJ8/s1600/Forward_2.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong></strong></span></a><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong><span style="color: #d5a6bd;">When she says: «It's your decision" =</span> </strong></span></div></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;"><strong>«It's better for you to know what I want and give it to me right now".</strong></span><br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4qvn6VALwg-04FCxNNYpOSkKP6SMFwR2qIcCewIt9AFT3iuzvVfD5HUlCm16PpInZ0T9XzouKr3A0wLcgGQsH9XDUxN5WpdFsNNdSKOCsQvjQICK1_f3II1D7XcFS8ioa4h3tktmalfc/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></span></strong></a></div><span style="color: #ea9999;"></span></div></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #d5a6bd;">When she says: «Go ahead, do what you want», she means in reality: =</span><span style="color: #ea9999;"> </span></span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><strong><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">«I don't want you to do it and you'll pay for it later".</span></strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s1600-h/Ball_bounces.gif" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ct="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S37nhmi6fVI/AAAAAAAABYI/48aj0KUi-KY/s320/Ball_bounces.gif" /></a></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: center;"></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ea9999; font-size: large;">Would you be able, after this exploration of language to interpret what she is trying to tell you and avoid misunderstanding? Or will it be necessary to provide more clues about her language? Good luck ..</span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-77470336443356602522010-01-22T20:57:00.012+01:002010-01-22T21:12:36.996+01:00Love in your couple ?<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="color: #e69138; font-family: Times;"></span><br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #cccccc; font-size: x-large;">Love and marriage : are they compatible ?</span></strong><strong><span style="color: #cccccc;"><br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S1N9kXvLXtI/AAAAAAAABVQ/Vuw_3GNI-TE/s1600-h/Orange-Hearts.gif" imageanchor="1" style="cssfloat: right; margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="328" ps="true" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S1N9kXvLXtI/AAAAAAAABVQ/Vuw_3GNI-TE/s640/Orange-Hearts.gif" style="height: 328px; width: 527px;" width="527" /></a><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">If we were in love before marriage, is it possible to continue to love the same way after ? And if love is established after marriage, would it have the same taste, same value or not? </span><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #e69138; font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">Many people believe that the beautiful feelings of love extinguish after marriage, or even disappear. And many are who believe that Love when born after the marriage is more likely to last as long as we know how to maintain it. The issue is not to try to love before engagement or after, but rather how to establish a relationship in harmony with a true Love that lasts for life.</span><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">If you want to know how to create and maintain love in your marriage, here are some clues that may seem too simple or even absurd, but they are at the heart of a successful relationship. You can then judge for yourself if you live actually in love or not and why.</span><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S1dMClXbSJI/AAAAAAAABWA/RU8t-FkcD6M/s1600-h/orange-hot-heart-wallpaper_1024x768.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><img border="0" mt="true" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S1dMClXbSJI/AAAAAAAABWA/RU8t-FkcD6M/s320/orange-hot-heart-wallpaper_1024x768.jpg" /></span></a><span style="color: #e69138; font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"> You communicate your needs and your desires to your partner in all respect.</span><br />
<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S1dMClXbSJI/AAAAAAAABWA/RU8t-FkcD6M/s1600-h/orange-hot-heart-wallpaper_1024x768.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><img border="0" mt="true" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S1dMClXbSJI/AAAAAAAABWA/RU8t-FkcD6M/s320/orange-hot-heart-wallpaper_1024x768.jpg" /></span></a><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;"><span style="color: #b45f06;">You are careful to build your relationship and work it day after day.</span><br />
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<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S1dMClXbSJI/AAAAAAAABWA/RU8t-FkcD6M/s1600-h/orange-hot-heart-wallpaper_1024x768.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><img border="0" mt="true" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S1dMClXbSJI/AAAAAAAABWA/RU8t-FkcD6M/s320/orange-hot-heart-wallpaper_1024x768.jpg" /></span></a><br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="color: #e69138; font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">You understand that the desires and needs of your partner are as important as yours.</span><br />
<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S1dMClXbSJI/AAAAAAAABWA/RU8t-FkcD6M/s1600-h/orange-hot-heart-wallpaper_1024x768.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><img border="0" mt="true" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/S1dMClXbSJI/AAAAAAAABWA/RU8t-FkcD6M/s320/orange-hot-heart-wallpaper_1024x768.jpg" /></span></a><br />
<span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">You try to approach the truth of your partner by getting rid of your illusions and your projections.</span><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #e69138; font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">You realize that your relationship has a hidden purpose: to heal the wounds of childhood both in opening towards each other.</span><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">You learn to recognize and overcome your dark side so as not to project onto your partner.</span><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #e69138; font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">You're ready to love unconditionally and with confidence.</span><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #b45f06; font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">You know that to love truely is difficult, but you accept it.</span><br />
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</div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-12322747395946900112009-12-24T19:04:00.000+01:002009-12-24T19:04:42.171+01:00Activate your Intuition !<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: center;"><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Have you had that experience when all of a sudden you just had this huge hunch that something is about to happen, and to your surprise, that intuition was eventually translated to reality? </span><span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-size: large;">Why is the need to activate intuition ? Why not let your emotional and psychological state as it is? First and foremost, intuition promotes good communication. It makes you more sensitive to the people around you; it often keeps you from hurting those you love because you are intuitive enough to understand them. Intuition also makes you far more creative than ever. Lastly, intuition has a knowledge and a healing power. This healing power is not in the physical sense, but in delving deep into your soul to eradicate some negative energy buried in it. Thus, are you ready to develop your intuition? If yes, here are some ways to activate this gift :</span><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: left;"><strong><span style="color: #3d85c6; font-size: large;">1. Meditation </span></strong><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: left;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Sy_Gd97QlmI/AAAAAAAABUA/v7nqZmWX690/s1600-h/small.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ps="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Sy_Gd97QlmI/AAAAAAAABUA/v7nqZmWX690/s320/small.JPG" /></a><span style="color: #9fc5e8;">Meditating means finding peace in yourself. If your mind and heart are cluttered with too many baggage and hurt, you wouldn’t be able to quiet down that part of you that could eventually initiate intuition. There are so many ways to meditate: take a yoga class, or just simply practice some breathing that could bring you straight to Zen.</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #3d85c6; font-size: large;">2. Think positive! </span></strong><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Sy_Gd97QlmI/AAAAAAAABUA/v7nqZmWX690/s1600-h/small.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><strong><span style="color: #3d85c6; font-size: large;"><img border="0" ps="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Sy_Gd97QlmI/AAAAAAAABUA/v7nqZmWX690/s320/small.JPG" /></span></strong></a><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6; font-size: large;"><strong>3. Just let go! </strong></span><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Sy_Gd97QlmI/AAAAAAAABUA/v7nqZmWX690/s1600-h/small.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><span style="color: #3d85c6; font-size: large;"><strong></strong></span></a><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: left;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Sy_Gd97QlmI/AAAAAAAABUA/v7nqZmWX690/s1600/small.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ps="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Sy_Gd97QlmI/AAAAAAAABUA/v7nqZmWX690/s320/small.JPG" /></a><span style="color: #9fc5e8;">What does this mean? If you are on the brink of making a huge decision, let go of all the inhibitions and head to a quiet place where you could find out where the letting go has brought you. Sometimes you just have to listen to the voice within you, and that voice wouldn’t come out unless you let go.</span><br />
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<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Sy_Gd97QlmI/AAAAAAAABUA/v7nqZmWX690/s1600/small.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" ps="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Sy_Gd97QlmI/AAAAAAAABUA/v7nqZmWX690/s320/small.JPG" /></a><span style="color: #9fc5e8;">After letting go of the inhibitions and all those things that stop you from thinking and feeling clearly, never expect for an answer right away. Never expect that the “hunch” would fall on your lap immediately. Give it a little time then you’d just get surprised that now you have your answer.</span><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: left;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Sy_Gd97QlmI/AAAAAAAABUA/v7nqZmWX690/s1600/small.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: right; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ps="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Sy_Gd97QlmI/AAAAAAAABUA/v7nqZmWX690/s320/small.JPG" /></a><span style="color: #9fc5e8;">When you see someone for the first time and think that he is a bit too arrogant for your taste, chances are that impression actually holds true. Most of the time, first impressions are brought by intuition.</span><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: left;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="color: #3d85c6; font-size: large;"><strong>6. Stay happy! </strong></span><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Sy_Gd97QlmI/AAAAAAAABUA/v7nqZmWX690/s1600-h/small.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><span style="color: #3d85c6; font-size: large;"><strong></strong></span></a><br />
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<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Sy_O_HdbpBI/AAAAAAAABUI/nyVDAelcQsQ/s1600-h/small.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" ps="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Sy_O_HdbpBI/AAAAAAAABUI/nyVDAelcQsQ/s320/small.JPG" /></a><span style="color: #9fc5e8;">All you need to be intuitive is to stay happy! Happiness attracts immense power and such power includes intuition. In tapping your intuition, your motivation must be happiness and contentment. Given that premise, intuition will fall to you easily. </span><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="color: #3d85c6; font-size: large;">Intuition is helpful, because sometimes it leads you to something that cannot be achieved otherwise. A lot of lives have been saved by intuition alone. Decisions are easier done if armed by this gift. Develop intuition now and reap benefits you have never imagined. It's a knowledge and a power all in you. </span><br />
</div></div></div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-4012319470672999152009-12-08T21:57:00.002+01:002009-12-09T09:24:53.068+01:00Rest your Mind ..<p><marquee style="WIDTH: 679px; HEIGHT: 44px"><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;"><strong>Your thoughts .. It's what tires you ..</strong></span></marquee><p align="center"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;"></span></strong></p><div align="center"><strong><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;"></span></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;"></span></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;"></span></strong></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#cc0000;"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 545px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 337px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5411457142033463826" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/SxlbmXwnuhI/AAAAAAAABSc/JDwqlqFGJSQ/s320/mind+controle.JPG" /></span></div><p align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;">The path to self discovery begins with exercises on one's self. As a first time, you must learn to manage and embed all negative thoughts and critical voices that prevent you from advancing in life. This is how you learn to understand yourself better. These exercises will help you to de-stress, to calm your mind so that you can hear your intuition. You need patience, perseverance and confidence in what you do. </span></p></span><p align="justify"><span style="color:#cc0000;">Find a quiet place, unplug the phone, television, and anything that might disturb you. You'll watch your thoughts just to be aware of what's happening in your head.Thoughts include: sounds, sensations in your body, sounds from inside or peoples voices. Just give yourself enough time to feel comfortable watching what is going on in your mind. Being gently alert is more important than how long you spend. The more alert you become, the more you will notice. Here are three practical exercises : </span><span style="color:#cc0000;"><br /></p></span><p align="justify"></p><p><span style="color:#cc0000;"><strong><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;">1. Watch your thoughts </span></strong></span></p><p align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc66;">Relax and gently close your eyes. For about 1 minute, easily watch thoughts flowi</span><a href="http://www.blogger.com/%3Ca"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 79px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 67px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5411714908213856338" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/SxpGCVnFyFI/AAAAAAAABSs/c1ClwxlTtww/s320/mind+controle.JPG" /></span></a><span style="color:#ffcc66;">ng through your mind. Just watch them and observe them, and let them go. Open your eyes. Did you notice how quickly or slowly your thoughts were moving through? What else did you notice? Were there lots of thoughts or a few thoughts? </span></p><p></p><p align="justify"><span style="color:#cc0000;"></span></p><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;"><p><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;">2. Count your thoughts</span></p><p align="justify"></span></strong></p><p align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc66;">Next you will count your thoughts. For example, if you notice the sound of a bird singin<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/SxpGCVnFyFI/AAAAAAAABSs/c1ClwxlTtww/s1600-h/mind+controle.JPG"></a>g,<a href="http://www.blogger.com/%3Ca"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 79px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 67px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5411714908213856338" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/SxpGCVnFyFI/AAAAAAAABSs/c1ClwxlTtww/s320/mind+controle.JPG" /></span></a> count that as thought #1. If you notice a sensation in your body, count that as #2. If you have a thought like, “oh, I am hungry ?” Count that as #3. And so on, count as many thoughts as you notice. Begin by gently closing your eyes. Relax and notice the thoughts moving through your mind. Then easily, effortlessly begin to count each thought that comes into your awareness. Keep alert during this exercise. Continue this for about 2 minutes, then open your eyes How many thoughts did you count? </span></p><p align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;"><strong>3. Stay alert as you watch your thoughts</strong></span></p><p align="justify">Once again, gently close your eyes and watch the thoughts moving through your<a href="http://www.blogger.com/%3Ca"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 79px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 67px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5411714908213856338" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/SxpGCVnFyFI/AAAAAAAABSs/c1ClwxlTtww/s320/mind+controle.JPG" /></span></a> mind<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/SxpGCVnFyFI/AAAAAAAABSs/c1ClwxlTtww/s1600-h/mind+controle.JPG"></a>. Do not count. Just watch. Stay alert. Continue for about 2 minutes, then open your eyes. Did your thoughts begin to slow down? If yes, then you are starting to better understand the flow of your thoughts.</p><p></p><p></p><p></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;"></span></p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;"><p align="justify"><br />These exercises will reduce your thoughts and calm your mind. The more you practice the more you become aware of what's happening in your mind, which will allow you better control yourself after. Trust yourself and what you feel. This is the key for what's coming next.</p><br /></span><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-80248942997438943222009-11-08T20:51:00.036+01:002009-11-14T21:29:42.995+01:00Your Intuition .. where did it arrive ?<p align="center"><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><strong></strong></span></span></p><p align="center"><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style="color:#cc0000;"><strong>Which voice do you hear more often ? </strong><br /></span></p></span><p align="center"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Su2ZnHHC3yI/AAAAAAAABQM/ZJC2HbIAvNQ/s1600-h/intuition.jpg"><strong><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 543px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 263px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399140425489637154" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Su2ZnHHC3yI/AAAAAAAABQM/ZJC2HbIAvNQ/s320/intuition.jpg" /></strong></a> </p><p align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">We often use our brain to solve problems, make decisions, find solutions. We know how the brain communicates and how it works. The brain is constantly in a state of alert and restlessness even during sleep. But do you know how your intuition speaks to you? This force in you which bears an incredible intellect? It is as much present and active as the brain is with one difference, you don't recognise its voice. Here are some points to distinguish between the voice of your brain and that of your intuition. </span><br /></strong></span></p><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><br /><p align="center"><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Svbhs0FAjDI/AAAAAAAABRU/noAqm4n6FkU/s1600-h/Ball.gif"></a></span></p><p align="center"><span style="color:#cc0000;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><em><strong>Here is the voice of your <span style="color:#cc0000;">MIND</span> .. </strong><br /></p></em></span></span><div align="left"></div><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> </span>It's talking all the time - it shouts ;<br /></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;"><strong>.</strong></span> It's a mind-chatter, a self limiting giving reasons why you can't ;</span></p><p></span></p><p><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> </span>It brings you regrets, negative interpretations of a factual situation <a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/SvHcxk7hXqI/AAAAAAAABRE/0spvjr8DHpg/s1600-h/mind.jpg"><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></a><br /></span></span><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#cc0000;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong>.</strong> </span></span>It's words, scenarios ;<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Svge38Dab1I/AAAAAAAABR0/FjmQPk07BZA/s1600-h/mind.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 240px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 384px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402101699392991058" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Svge38Dab1I/AAAAAAAABR0/FjmQPk07BZA/s320/mind.jpg" /></a></span></span> </p><p><span style="color:#9999ff;"></p></span><span style="color:#9999ff;"><div align="left"></span></div><p><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><span style="color:#9999ff;"><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;">.</span> </span></strong>It's a worrier</span> ;</p></span><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> </span>It's speaking knowledge, facts, data ;</span><br /></span><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><div align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> It wants to be right based on data & beliefs;<br /></span></div><div align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#9999ff;"></div></span></span><span style="color:#9999ff;"><div align="left"></span></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> </span>It's a perfectionist ;<br /></div></span></span><div align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ffcc66;"></span></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#9999ff;"></div></span></span><span style="color:#9999ff;"><div align="left"></span></div><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style="color:#cc0000;"><strong>.</strong> </span></span>It's partly accurate, partly wrong ; <a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Svge38Dab1I/AAAAAAAABR0/FjmQPk07BZA/s1600-h/mind.jpg"></a><br /></span></span><div align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ffcc66;"></span></div><div align="left"></div><span style="color:#9999ff;"><div align="left"></span></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style="color:#cc0000;"><strong>.</strong> </span></span>It's affecting your attitude ;</span></span></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"></div></span></span><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#9999ff;"><div align="left"></span></span></div><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> </span>It's always reasoning, rationalising ;<br /></span></span><div align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ffcc66;"></span></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#9999ff;"></div></span></span><span style="color:#9999ff;"><div align="left"></span></div><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> </span>It shows payoffs ;<br /></span></span><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> </span>It asks why ;<br /></span></span><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#cc0000;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">.</span></strong> </span>It's capable of lying ;</span></span><br /></span><div align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"></div></span><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></div><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"></div></span></span></span><span style="color:#9999ff;"><div align="justify"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style="color:#cc0000;"><strong>.</strong> </span></span>It's creating self-fulfilling prophecy ;<br /></div></span></span><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"></div></span><span style="color:#9999ff;"><div align="justify"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> </span>It's complex ;<br /></span></span><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#cc0000;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">.</span></strong> </span>It's past and future oriented ;<br /></span></span><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> It's tormenting ;<br /></div></span></span><div align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> It's frantic. </span></span></div><div align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ffcc66;"></span><br /></div><span style="font-size:130%;"><p align="left"></p></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><p align="left"><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;"></span></strong></p><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;"><em>And here is the voice of your <span style="color:#cc0000;">INTUITION</span> ..</em></span></strong></span></div><p align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"></p></span></span><p></p><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ffcc66;"><div align="left"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style="color:#cc0000;">.</span> </span></strong>It's not a language; no words are involved ;</div><p align="left"></span><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style="color:#cc0000;"><strong>.</strong> </span></span>It's not condemning ;</span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> </span>It's a gut instinct, you just "know" ;</span></span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> It's living in the "now" <a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/SvHcxzcq2RI/AAAAAAAABRM/jvQpwNAZCL8/s1600-h/man_heart.jpg"></a>;<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Svgd9WU_ylI/AAAAAAAABRs/Jz6GaM7TRco/s1600-h/man_heart.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 258px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 337px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402100692833782354" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Svgd9WU_ylI/AAAAAAAABRs/Jz6GaM7TRco/s320/man_heart.jpg" /></a></span></span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> </span>It's telling you to "just do it" with no reasons attached ;</span></span></span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#cc0000;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">.</span></strong> </span>It's simple ;</span></span></span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> It's possibly allowing you to pick up on someone else's mood ;</span></span></span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;"><strong>. </strong></span>It's helping you take care of yourself possibly life saving ;</span></span></span></span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> It's truthful, obvious, honest ;</span></span></span></span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#cc0000;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">.</span></strong> </span></span><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;">It's a complete integrity ;</span></span></span></span></span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> </span>It's wisdom, never mistaken ;</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;"> </span><span style="color:#ffcc66;">It's promoting freedom ;</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> </span>It's a mood that is always good, happy, love, peace and joy ;</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> </span><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;">It's responsible ;</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style="color:#cc0000;"><strong>.</strong> </span></span>It's accepting you as human and not perfect ;</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><p align="left"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> </span><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="font-size:130%;">It's a problem solver ;</span></span></p><p align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong><span style="color:#cc0000;">.</span></strong> </span>It answers your questions</span> . </p><p align="left"></p><p align="justify"><br /></p><p align="justify"></p><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;"><strong>However, the voice of intuition is not strong enough to be heard by our ears at any moment, it's like a little voice inside that speaks softly. In order to hear it and follow it, we need peace and serenity, we need to rest our minds.</strong> </span></div><p align="justify"><marquee height="30%" width="75%" style="color:#ffca4c;"><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ffcc66;"><em>To<strong> </strong>be continued <span style="color:#9999ff;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;">..</span><strong> </strong></span>Activate<strong> </strong>your <span style="color:#ffcc66;">intuition</span><strong> </strong>and<strong> </strong>rest<strong> </strong>your<strong> </strong><span style="color:#cc0000;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;">mind</span><strong> </strong></span><span style="color:#ffcc66;"><span style="color:#ffcc66;">..</span> </span><br /></em></span></marquee></p><p align="justify"></p></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><div class="blogger-post-footer">Guestbook</div>Lilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08231520414315819359noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2298964984106365645.post-38639701588995720632009-10-15T14:56:00.016+02:002009-10-20T13:29:58.630+02:00Communicating again with Men ..<div align="center"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#ffcc33;">What else should you know about Men ?</span></strong></div><p align="center"><strong><a href="http://www.professionalanimations.com/"><span style="font-size:180%;color:#c0c0c0;"><em><strong><img border="0" alt="Animations - heart-11" src="http://www.professionalanimations.com/GAimage/animations/love/heart-11.gif" width="60" height="44" /></strong></em></span></a></p></strong><p align="justify"><strong><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ffffff;"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 299px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 356px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5392796579154075794" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/StcP6p5roJI/AAAAAAAABQE/bt4loEhmtCs/s320/irressitible+woman.JPG" />Ladies, you do not probably know all about men. That's why I propose an additional 'lesson' to help you communicate with them. In fact, men are very different from women, but they are complementary and that is where lies the secret of good communication. All you need is to understand each other in order to be able to communicate. If you put in mind that men are not as complicated as you think, beware that your communication will be a success. </span></strong></p><p align="center"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#c0c0c0;"><img style="WIDTH: 31px; HEIGHT: 37px" border="0" alt="Skamu.com - The only place for Myspace icons, Orkut avatars, and profile codes" src="http://www.skamu.com/icons/animated/images/icon04.gif" width="42" height="54" /></span></p><br /><p align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 32px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 24px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339401073850314642" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Shlc_MAv75I/AAAAAAAABEk/pNGanG2R7Jc/s320/Ball.gif" />If you want to get a man to be ‘chatty', all you need to do is to make him talk about a topic he loves such as a hobby, a sport, or his job. He wants a woman to listen to him as much as women wants a man to listen to her. </span></p><p align="justify"></p><p align="justify"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc0000;"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 32px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 24px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339401073850314642" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Shlc_MAv75I/AAAAAAAABEk/pNGanG2R7Jc/s320/Ball.gif" /><span style="color:#ffcc33;">Avoid the question "What are you thinking ?" A man can do better than he can explain. You believe that the man doesn’t think. Because every time you ask him what he's thinking, he can never give you a clear answer. In fact, a man thinks constantly but he is not aware of it. All he knows is that thoughts and ideas spring forth fully formed into his mind. Often, men will come up with a brilliant idea, but not be willing to explain to you how he came up with it. He is not being stubborn or refusing to communicate. He doesn't understand where it came from any more than you do; he just won't admit it. To find an idea, a man will devote much time and effort to it. </span></span><p></p><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ccffff;"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 32px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 24px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339401073850314642" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Shlc_MAv75I/AAAAAAAABEk/pNGanG2R7Jc/s320/Ball.gif" />Can you get a man to talk about his feelings? No, you can't. Trying to force him to will just drive him away. Does that mean you will never know how he feels about you? Of course not. </span><p></p><p align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc33;"><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></span></p><p align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc33;"><span style="font-size:130%;"></p></span></span><span style="color:#ffcc33;"><p align="justify"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 32px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 24px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339401073850314642" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Shlc_MAv75I/AAAAAAAABEk/pNGanG2R7Jc/s320/Ball.gif" /></span><span style="color:#9999ff;">First of all, you can tell how he feels by how he acts and what he does. That he's there with you, sharing things with you, doing things with you, is an expression of his love. </span></p><p align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc33;"><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></span></p><p align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc33;"><span style="font-size:130%;"></p></span></span><span style="color:#ffcc33;"><p align="justify"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 32px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 24px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339401073850314642" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Shlc_MAv75I/AAAAAAAABEk/pNGanG2R7Jc/s320/Ball.gif" /></span><span style="color:#ff99ff;">Secondly, he will do many things to express his feelings that you will not recognise as such, like making efforts to make you happy but .. in his way. To a man, the gift of a tool is the ultimate expression of love even if for you it's not that romantic. </span></p><p align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc33;"><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></span></p><p align="justify"><span style="color:#ffcc33;"><span style="font-size:130%;"></p></span></span><span style="color:#ffcc33;"><p align="justify"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 32px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 24px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339401073850314642" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Shlc_MAv75I/AAAAAAAABEk/pNGanG2R7Jc/s320/Ball.gif" /></span><span style="color:#ffcccc;">Finally, a man will on very rare occasions spontaneously come forth with an expression of love that you will recognise as such, either by saying it or getting frisky or giving flowers or something alike. It is very important to react in the proper manner when he does these things. You must learn to accept all his expressions of love, both gracefully and graciously. To react calmly and unexpressively (the way he usually reacts to anything you give to or do for him) is to tell him that you do not appreciate this expression of love.<br /></span></p><p align="center"><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#c0c0c0;"><img style="WIDTH: 31px; HEIGHT: 37px" border="0" alt="Skamu.com - The only place for Myspace icons, Orkut avatars, and profile codes" src="http://www.skamu.com/icons/animated/images/icon04.gif" width="42" height="54" /></span></p><p align="justify"><span style="color:#cc0000;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 32px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 24px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339401073850314642" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_iChAcywhGmw/Shlc_MAv75I/AAAAAAAABEk/pNGanG2R7Jc/s320/Ball.gif" />Don’t offer him help if he doesn’t ask you for. Offering and starting to help without waiting his agreement makes him feel that he actually needs your help. Do not offer in such a way as to make it sound like you think your man actually needs your help. Even if he does. Especially if he does. And do not under any circumstances ask as if you are amused by his inability to do the project himself. Remember, your man bases his sense of self worth on what he can do for you. To imply that he can't do the job himself or that you are amused by his failures is to imply that he isn't a man.</span><br /></span><br /></p><p align="center"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#c0c0c0;"><img style="WIDTH: 31px; HEIGHT: 37px" border="0" alt="Skamu.com - The only place for Myspace icons, Orkut avatars, and profile codes" src="http://www.skamu.com/icons/animated/images/icon04.gif" width="42" height="54" /></span></p><p align="justify"><strong><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ffffff;">You can understand now that a man is not as complicated as he appears to be : he does more than he says. All you need to is to make an effort to understand him and so be able to communicate with him more efficiently. You will see how you'll change your mind about men ! 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