Communicate with a Woman ..

Would you like to be irresistible in the eyes of a woman ?

Most men feel helpless in front of the incomprehensible mystery : the woman. They are convinced that women are too complicated, a very different creature, that's why they don't do any effort to understand them. Unfortunately, this is a too simplistic way to drop the confrontation. Talking without understanding is the dialogue of the deaf. Yet the secret is simple : to communicate with a woman it's just to know her language. Like all other languages, communicating with a woman can be learned. It is a talent that needs to be developed, just like to know to drive, or to play a musical instrument or typing ! Here are some tips to help you learn this mysterious female language. Once you know this language and you begin to use it, you are an irresistible man.

Make time to talk with her ! Just as you make time to watch television, to eat, to surf on the net, to go out, you need to make the time to sit with her and talk. This is called making an effort and even if you only discuss the very basics : work, friends, for her it will be well noted.

Be an active listener ! Pay attention to what she says and acknowledge what she says but without judgement. This requires patience and concentration, which is again something men are not known for. Make the effort to try, you won't regret it.

Let her know you care ! If she had a bad day at work, she needs to know you are on her side. Telling her that she should just quit her job if she doesn't like or to minimise the value of her suffering or feelings, is not at all the answer. Think about how you would feel in a similar situation and even relate a similar experience if you've had one. She has to know you care about her.

Watch emotions and details ! When talking with her, put your ego aside and use emotions and details when describing an experience. She will certainly relate to what you say having felt the same thing herself and by offering the seemingly pointless details, she will know you care about her.

Have the will and the passion to better understand her ! Feeling obliged to learn her language won't help you. To communicate with women is like learning a foreign language. But everything was foreign once. The key to learning anything is to have a passion for the subject and then practise as much as possible. Understanding her better will bring you more of what you want and you would do it for her. Women often complain that men don't know how to communicate.

Be by her side ! Women don’t need to have a particular reason to talk ; they like to talk because it creates connection with the others. So they always want to have near them someone who wants to listen and talk with them. Also, women use talking as a way to release tension. A woman, when she talks, she feels better. So Sirs, listen, listen and .. listen.

Be surprising ! Women love small gestures. To a man these gestures do not have necessarily an important value. You may consider them ridiculous or unnecessary, but for a woman, those little touches count so much, even more than a trip to Venice ! Soft words, surprises, small gifts, remembering important dates, gestures of affection, calls from time to time, etc. do not cost much but captivate a woman.

Remember the secret key : a woman does not speak your language, does not think like you do, does not see things the same way as you do : she is different from you ! What you need to do is to apply the first lesson. This is the key to a successful communication. And that's not all ..

Lesson 1

Men - Women .. It's not over ..

How to tell if a Man is in Love ?

Is He in Love With You ?

A man does not express his feelings easily. He is more unpredictable than a woman. It is difficult to understand what lies in the heart of a man in love, more difficult if he is shy. The signs that a man expresses are widely different from those emitted by a woman in love. The character of the man plays an important role in the issuance of these signs. A shy man fears the strong rejection of the woman, that she will take lightly to his feelings of love. This prevents him from expressing his feelings. Ladies, if you have any doubts about someone in your life and you do not ask, here are some signs that do not deceive that a man is in love.

He is anxious when with you and shows signs of nervosity.

He will do anything to get your attention. He can even change his behavior and character to show you that he is the best. He talks about his competencies and his adventures.

Some play cards the faithful friend. He is so smooth and it is generally regarded as your brother. Fraternity men and women, when one of the players think of love rather than friendship.

He will talk about common interests you share both of you, and hobbies.

He shows you a mysterious personality and do not reveal all these secrets from the very first meeting.

He tries to show you he is better than the others to impress you by his unique style and his qualities, as a woman wants her man to be different.

He becomes jealous if you are interested in someone else.

He shows you that he can make the right decisions.

He manages to be present at every moment. Not the way to take a step without him being there.

If a man liberates himself from his busy schedule just for you, is that he is serious and he manages to find time to spend with you. If he is in love he will see you anyway.

When a man is in love, he becomes a bit shy. Some do not have enough courage to show their true feelings and few others fear that girls drop. But from the way he communicates with you, you can guess whether he is interested or not. He will use a soft and polite tone.

Sometimes, a man in love, instead of approaching the woman he loves, he fleds, he avoids her, because he feels unable to cope or to confess his feelings. He is afraid that she rejects him, or because he cannot offer anything.

If he is in love with you, he shows interest in everything that concerns you. He asks for details about your daily activities and becomes a good listener. He is interested in what happens in your life and more details. He shows interest in everything he thinks he should know.

He has known you, he will show that he is interested and concerned about you. When a man loves you, he becomes more reflective and observant.

He seeks to know you better. He ensures that you are well. If he is very interested in you, means that you are important to him. So, the attention he gives you is another sign of love.

These were some examples of signs specific to men. There may be many others because everything depends on the nature of the man: shy, nervous, dragging, etc.. If the man you love does not share your feelings yet, you are shy to talk with him, watch! A man not in love, once he feels the feelings of a woman, he will flee. However, being trapped in the silence is not the best way to attract his attention. Give him the green light to tackle, because men do not understand easily the feelings of women if they do not say . If so, you must be responsible for encouraging him to speak and not be too shy with him. Good luck ..