Man .. Woman .. Dangerous friendship

Next .. When friendship with the opposite sex becomes dangerous ..

Some Definitions in Life ..

How do you define..

Woman..

When a woman accuses her husband of having a bad taste, she forgets that chosing her as a wife is part of this "bad taste" ... these are women.

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Man..

If a man can have all the women on earth except one, he will desire this only woman ... these are men.

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Human ..

When a man likes a woman, he imagines her naked. When a woman likes a man, she imagines him at his best. These are human beings.

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Selfishness..

When someone calls you for something very important, it's is obviously important for him ... this is selfishness.

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Wisdom..

When your wife insists on buying fresh fish and not frozen and keeps it carefully in the freezer for a few weeks in order to enjoy the "fresh fish" later ... this is wisdom.

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Relativity ..

A man sought all his life the perfect woman to marry her, and when he finally found her, 40 years later, he discovered that she too was looking for the perfect man who was not him ... this is relativity.

 

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Awareness..

A beautiful woman asked an African archaeologist to marry her in order to make the humanity miracle child: who has the beauty of his mother and the intelligence of his father. However, the archaeologist has refused for fear that the child might have the beauty of his father and the intelligence of his mother and thus become the stupidity of humanity. This is awareness. 

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If you cannot look forward because your future is dark .. or backward because your past is painful .. live your present as it's the only real moment. This is the personal development ...

How do you define ..

Next .. some essential definitions in life ..

Your imagination reveals who you are ..

What you imagine is what you are!

Here is an interesting test, which needs some imagination in order to learn to know yourself as well as the others. You will need a paper and a pen to write down what you imagine so that you won't forget it.

Imagine a desert. In it there is a cube. How is the cube? (big, small) What is its colour? Is it transparent or not? Is it made of wood, metal, glass, etc? Is it in the middle of desert or in a corner? What is it made of? Do you see in 3d or not? Is it floating or on the ground?

Imagine a ladder. What is its colour? Is it far from the cube, near or leaning on the cube? Does it have many ranges or few?

You see a horse, how is it wild or domestic? Is it near the cube or far? Is it beautiful or not? Does it run, stand still, or is it tied?

Then imagine a storm. Is it near the  cube or far? Is it big or small? Is it strong or weak? Is it passing by or staying? Is it near the cube or far from it?

Here is the meaning of the objects you imagined:

The Cube





The cube represents you!

. The bigger the cube is, the bigger your ego. If the cube is transparent, you are open to others; you don't hide anything from your friends or family. If you cannot see through the cube, it means that you are a private person and don't talk much about yourself.

. If the cube is made out of something solid and strong, it means that you are a strong person. If it is soft, it means that you can be easily influenced and you are emotional.

How you think about the cube represents how you think about yourself.

. Cube on the ground = you are down to earth.

. Floating cube = you are a dreamer.

. You see the flat side of the cube = you have a shallow personality.

. You see the cube in 3D = you have a deep personality.

. Cube in the centre = you like the attention and you like to be praised.

The colour of the cube represents your personality. In general, if the cube is light you are a positive person and the darker it is the more negative you are. However it may not always be so, you should always pay attention to how you feel about the colour. If you like the colour then you are a likeable personality, it the colour seems cold to you, you seem distant to people.

Meanings of the cube colours:

. Black = authority, elegance, sophistication. It can also mean the dark side of the personality.

. White = innocence, non-judgemental personality, objectivity, lack of strong opinions.

. Red = dominance, power, love and energy. If your cube is red it also can mean that you are an attention seeker.

. Yellow = shows that the person loves attention and would do almost anything to get the attention. If this is your colour, you may seem too overbearing to some people so they may avoid you. This colour also represents playfulness, optimism and energy.

. Green = compassion, prosperity, money, and vitality.

. Blue = knowledge, loyalty and calmness.

. Purple = luxury, wealth, and sophistication.

. Brown = stability, it's the most common cube colour among men.

The Ladder

The ladder represents your friends!

. The closer the ladder to the cube, the closer you are with your friends. If the ladder is leaning against the cube, this indicates that some friends are relying on you or expecting you to act according to their wishes.

. If the ladder is far away from the cube, it may mean that you either have no friends or you don't consider their friendship important to you. You either mentally or physically like to distance yourself from your friends.

. The colour of the ladder represents the personality that most of your friends have. You can check the meaning of the ladder colour in the cube colour description.

. The more rungs the ladder has, the more friends you have.


The Horse

The horse represents your ideal partner and how you behave in relationships!

. If it is a wild horse, it means that you give freedom to your partner.


. If the horse is tied, it means you want to be in control and you always want to know where your partner is and what he/she is doing. If the horse is tied to the cube that shows that you are a very possessive person.

. The distance between the cube and the horse shows how close or distant you are in relationships. How the horse behaves also shows what kind of partner you would like to have.

. If the horse is running or does not stand for long in one place, it means that you want to have a partner that would like to travel, would be full of energy and would always be involved in something.


. If the horse does nothing but stands or eats, it means that you want to have a partner that likes to be at home and rarely travels.

. The look of a horse can also indicate the physical features of your ideal partner. The better the appearance of the horse, the better-looking partner you would like to have.

The Storm

The storm represents how you deal with difficulties in life!

. If it is a big storm, then you always try to make a drama out of something.


. If the storm is small and far away from the cube, it means that you are a calm and positive person and you don't like being angry and try to quickly shift your mood if you notice that anger gets activated in you.

. The storm can also represent current problems in your life. If, whilst seeing storm in your mind's eye, you think that it will stay there for a long time, you think the same way about your current problems.

. If you see a big storm, it means that you currently experience big problems in your life. The proximity between the storm and the cube also shows how intensely these problems affect you.

With this test of imagination, you can better understand how you lead your life. You can also use it to better know the person who interests you.

What you imagine is what you are

Soon .. your imagination tells who you are ..

Man .. Woman, just friends!

Him and Her, just friends?

We all need friendship. Friendship can give us something that we cannot get from our family. However, when we speak about friendship, do we refer to the man-man, woman-woman or man-woman friendship? Is it the same thing? Why do we seek friendship with the opposite sex? Before answering these questions, the person that you consider "friend" is really just a firend? Watch his / her behaviour, his / her speech and especially the  body language which never lies. Here are some clues that show you that the other is not just "friend":

He .. just a friend?

· He does try to impress you.

· He offers personal gifts for your birthday.

· He never talks about his feelings towards someone else.

· He talks about what he did during the day, what he ate for diner, tv programs that he watched...

·  He calls you simply to hear your voice.

· If you mention another man, he becomes very quiet and moody and is keen to change the subject.

She.. just a friend ?

·  She takes care of her appearance in front of you so that to attract you.

· Pay attention to her reactions to you when you are with her. A girl who wants to be more than just friends will usually try to stay close to you. Read her body language. Girls usually smile a lot around boys they like.

· She offers you an irregular level of eye contact.

· Think about her availability when you need support. If she always answers your phone calls, replies to your text messages and shows up at important events in your life, chances are, she wants to begin a relationship with you.

· Consider the way she acts when you are around other girls. Jealousy is an almost sure sign that the girl you like wants to be more than just friends. She may get an upset look on her face or try to jump into every conversation that you have with other girls if she is jealous of the attention you are showing the other girl.

Friends around you can tell when something is going on and have no doubt on the changes taking place in your relationship with your friend.

However, the question is, why do we seek friendship with the opposite sex?

Men .. Women .. just friends!

Soon ..


Friendship man - woman?!

 

Couple life: Are you sure you love your partner?

Five False Friends that make love disappear ..

Some emotions that are part of the feeling of love cannot be regarded as an expression of true love. On the contrary, each of them negates the other. We take them as a proof of love but they are really what kills it. Do you know them?

Jealousy:

It is believed that the greater the bite of jealousy is, the greater the love seems profound. But if jealousy is inseparable from the feeling of love, it is far from being its major criteria. In true love, feelings are "I love" and "I am loved". In jealousy, there is only the feeling of the loved object of the other, who cannot bear losing him out of sight. He thinks he is no more loved. Excessive jealousy nourishes itself by the ignorance of the other. One speaks only of himself, of past wounds. In this relationship, the other is loved because he gives the 'jealous' a consistency to have what he lacks.

Overprotection:

This is when love is expressed as for the care of the other in a way of self-sacrifice: "I am concerned about you," "I protect you," "I wish your well-being". At first glance, it is a genuine love. But this protective love actually seeks personal rewards: "It's your turn now to take care of me," nobody else will care for you as well as me. " It is indeed an alliance that aims to heal the wounds of childhood abandonment, emotional or physical abuse.

Dependence:

Being dependent on the other is to be ready to do anything lest to be facing the insupportable emptiness in oneself that occurs when the other moves away. It's just like a child who feels alive and safe when he is connected to his mother. Dependence in love talks about love, but unrequited love, hurt love. Dependent love interprets, in adulthood, the desire to repair the deep wounds of childhood, where one was malnourished emotionally. But the repair is doomed to failure because the total and permanent fusion with the other is impossible.

Hyperintensity:

The romantic relationship depends on passionate feelings. That is to say: "this is the big love, the true one", both the feelings and emotions it provokes are strong. The temporality changes: there is time 'before' the meeting, an empty past of real meaning, and this short present, which destroys everything in its path. This love is driven by necessity, not desire, fed by the need and waiting; it is consumed immediately after being consumed. Words are a source of conflict. This love is of those who fear to reveal themselves to the other. Passion can hide the emptiness, difficulty or misunderstandings of the relationship.

Possessivity :

Having the desire to possession is one component of love, but when it is central and permanent, it is not love that is in questions, but rather fears. Possession is being unable to love unless one has his beloved available. We may not feel the control of the other, but unsupportable fear shots up from the depths of the psyche. "He is part of me, I cannot let him go away". The possessive, unlike the addict, does not seek to merge with the other as he considers him to be part of him, like a body organ. Possessiveness is older than jealousy. When the possessive loses control of the other, he feels threatened in his own life, as if his partner left bloodless, drained of his lifeblood.

These emotions of love, so dangerous, should be avoided or consumed in moderation.

According to Psychology

How do People Really See You?

Test your present personality

The following is an accurate test of personality. It helps corporations get better insight concerning their employees and in their perspective employees. It takes only a few minutes.

This test idicates the answers for who you are "now" and not who you were in the past. Have pen or pencil and paper ready. Take this test and try to find your profile.

You have only 10 Simple questions. Keep a track of your letter answers to each question. Are you ready? Begin the test.

1. When do you feel your best..
A) in the morning
B) during the afternoon and early evening
C) late at night


 2.. You usually walk...
A) fairly fast, with long steps
B) fairly fast, with little steps
C) less fast head up, looking the world in the face
D) less fast, head down
E) very slowly


3. When talking to people you....
A) stand with your arms folded
B) have your hands clasped
C) have one or both your hands on your hips
D) touch or push the person to whom you are talking
E) play with your ear, touch your chin, or smooth your hair


4. When relaxing, you sit with...
A) your knees bent with your legs neatly side by side
B) your legs crossed
C) your legs stretched out or straight
D) one leg curled under you

5. When something really amuses you, you react with...
A) big appreciated laugh
B) a laugh, but not a loud one
C) a quiet chuckle
D) a sheepish smile


6. When you go to a party or social gathering you...
A) make a loud entrance so everyone notices you
B) make a quiet entrance, looking around for someone you know
C) make the quietest entrance, trying to stay unnoticed

7. You're working very hard,concentrating hard, and you're interrupted...

A) welcome the break
B) feel extremely irritated
C) vary between these two extremes


8. Which of the following colors do you like most...
A) Red or orange
B) black
C) yellow or light blue
D) green
E) dark blue or purple
F) white
G) brown or gray


9. When you are in bed at night, in those last few moments before going to sleep you are...
A) stretched out on your back
B) stretched out face down on your stomach
C) on your side, slightly curled
D) with your head on one arm
E) with your head under the covers


10. You often dream that you are...
A) falling
B) fighting or struggling
C) searching for something or somebody
D) flying or floating
E) you usually have dreamless sleep
F) your dreams are always pleasant


This is the result. Count your points :

1. (a) 2 (b) 4 (c) 6
2. (a) 6  (b) 4  (c) 7  (d) 2  (e) 1
3. (a) 4  (b) 2  (c) 5  (d) 7  (e) 6
4. (a) 4  (b) 6  (c) 2  (d) 1
5. (a) 6  (b) 4  (c) 3  (d) 5  (e) 2
6. (a) 6  (b) 4  (c) 2
7. (a) 6  (b) 2  (c) 4
8. (a) 6  (b) 7  (c) 5  (d) 4  (e) 3  (f) 2  (g) 1
9. (a) 7  (b) 6  (c) 4  (d) 2  (e ) 1
10. (a) 4  (b) 2  (c) 3  (d) 5  (e) 6  (f) 1


Now add up the total number of points. Here are the 6 profiles:

- Over 60 points : Others see you as someone they should handle with care'. You're seen as vain, self-centered, and who is extremely dominant. Others may admire you, wishing they could be more like you, but don't always trust you, hesitating to become too deeply involved with you.

- 51 to 60 points : Others see you as an exciting, highly volatile, rather impulsive personality, a natural leader, who'squick to make decisions, though not always the right ones. They see you as bold and adventuresome, someone who will try anything once, someone who takes chances and enjoys an adventure. They enjoy being in your company because of the excitement you radiate.

- 41 to 50 points : Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing, practical, and always interesting, someone who's constantly in the center of attention, but sufficiently well balanced not to let it go to their head. They also see you as kind, considerate, and understanding, someone who'll always cheer them up and help them out.

- 31 to 40 points : Others see you as sensible,cautious, careful practical. They see you as clever, gifted,or talented, but modest. Not a person who makes friends too quickly or easily, but someone who's extremely loyal to friends you do make and who expects the same loyalty in return. Those who really get to know you, realize it takes a lot to shake your trust in your friends, but equally that it takes you a long time to get over if that trust is ever broken.

- 21 to 30 points : Your friends see you as painstaking and fussy. They see you as very cautious, extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder. It would really surprise them if you ever did something impulsively or on the spur of the moment, expecting you to examine everything carefully from every angle and then, usually decide against it. They think this reaction is caused partly by your careful nature.

- Under 21 points : People think you are shy, nervous, and indecisive, someone who needs looking after, who always wants someone else to make the decisions and who doesn't want to get involved with anyone or anything! They see you as a worrier who always sees problems that don't exist. Some people think you're boring. Only those who know you well, know that you aren't.

A real test given by the Human Relations Dept.

Dr. Phil

How do people see you really?

Test your present personality

The following is an accurate test of personality. It helps corporations get better insight concerning their employees and in their perspective employees. It takes only a few minutes.

This test idicates the answers for who you are "now" and not who you were in the past. Have pen or pencil and paper ready. Take this test and try to find your profile.

You have only 10 Simple questions. Keep a track of your letter answers to each question. Are you ready? Begin the test.

1. When do you feel your best..
A) in the morning
B) during the afternoon and early evening
C) late at night


 2.. You usually walk...
A) fairly fast, with long steps
B) fairly fast, with little steps
C) less fast head up, looking the world in the face
D) less fast, head down
E) very slowly


3. When talking to people you....
A) stand with your arms folded
B) have your hands clasped
C) have one or both your hands on your hips
D) touch or push the person to whom you are talking
E) play with your ear, touch your chin, or smooth your hair


4. When relaxing, you sit with...
A) your knees bent with your legs neatly side by side
B) your legs crossed
C) your legs stretched out or straight
D) one leg curled under you

5. When something really amuses you, you react with...
A) big appreciated laugh
B) a laugh, but not a loud one
C) a quiet chuckle
D) a sheepish smile


6. When you go to a party or social gathering you...
A) make a loud entrance so everyone notices you
B) make a quiet entrance, looking around for someone you know
C) make the quietest entrance, trying to stay unnoticed

7. You're working very hard,concentrating hard, and you're interrupted...

A) welcome the break
B) feel extremely irritated
C) vary between these two extremes


8. Which of the following colors do you like most...
A) Red or orange
B) black
C) yellow or light blue
D) green
E) dark blue or purple
F) white
G) brown or gray


9. When you are in bed at night, in those last few moments before going to sleep you are...
A) stretched out on your back
B) stretched out face down on your stomach
C) on your side, slightly curled
D) with your head on one arm
E) with your head under the covers


10. You often dream that you are...
A) falling
B) fighting or struggling
C) searching for something or somebody
D) flying or floating
E) you usually have dreamless sleep
F) your dreams are always pleasant


This is the result. Count your points :

1. (a) 2 (b) 4 (c) 6
2. (a) 6  (b) 4  (c) 7  (d) 2  (e) 1
3. (a) 4  (b) 2  (c) 5  (d) 7  (e) 6
4. (a) 4  (b) 6  (c) 2  (d) 1
5. (a) 6  (b) 4  (c) 3  (d) 5  (e) 2
6. (a) 6  (b) 4  (c) 2
7. (a) 6  (b) 2  (c) 4
8. (a) 6  (b) 7  (c) 5  (d) 4  (e) 3  (f) 2  (g) 1
9. (a) 7  (b) 6  (c) 4  (d) 2  (e ) 1
10. (a) 4  (b) 2  (c) 3  (d) 5  (e) 6  (f) 1


Now add up the total number of points. Here are the 6 profiles:

- Over 60 points : Others see you as someone they should handle with care'. You're seen as vain, self-centered, and who is extremely dominant. Others may admire you, wishing they could be more like you, but don't always trust you, hesitating to become too deeply involved with you.

- 51 to 60 points : Others see you as an exciting, highly volatile, rather impulsive personality, a natural leader, who'squick to make decisions, though not always the right ones. They see you as bold and adventuresome, someone who will try anything once, someone who takes chances and enjoys an adventure. They enjoy being in your company because of the excitement you radiate.

- 41 to 50 points : Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing, practical, and always interesting, someone who's constantly in the center of attention, but sufficiently well balanced not to let it go to their head. They also see you as kind, considerate, and understanding, someone who'll always cheer them up and help them out.

- 31 to 40 points : Others see you as sensible,cautious, careful practical. They see you as clever, gifted,or talented, but modest. Not a person who makes friends too quickly or easily, but someone who's extremely loyal to friends you do make and who expects the same loyalty in return. Those who really get to know you, realize it takes a lot to shake your trust in your friends, but equally that it takes you a long time to get over if that trust is ever broken.

- 21 to 30 points : Your friends see you as painstaking and fussy. They see you as very cautious, extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder. It would really surprise them if you ever did something impulsively or on the spur of the moment, expecting you to examine everything carefully from every angle and then, usually decide against it. They think this reaction is caused partly by your careful nature.

- Under 21 points : People think you are shy, nervous, and indecisive, someone who needs looking after, who always wants someone else to make the decisions and who doesn't want to get involved with anyone or anything! They see you as a worrier who always sees problems that don't exist. Some people think you're boring. Only those who know you well, know that you aren't.

A real test given by the Human Relations Dept.

Dr. Phil

A Guide to Women's Language .. for Men !!

Can you interpret what she is telling you ?

Actually, a woman uses the same words and expressions as men but with a slight difference: they do not always use the 'good' words to say what 'needs' to be said exactly. A woman uses expressions that give generally 'different' meaning from their true signification, or quite the opposite, or else a meaning that is unrelated to the real signification of words. Rarely the words she uses really express their true meaning. In other words, when a woman speaks, what she says is off with what it means. A man when he listens to a woman, he understands what she meant literally, but not what is behind the lines. Are you lost? That's why, I invite you to explore this small guide that shows the path to understanding the language of women.

You want = 

You wnat

 We need = 

 I want

It's your decision =

The correct decision should be taken right now.

Do what you want =  

You will pay for this later.
We need to talk. = 

I need to complain.

Of course yes, it's clear. = 

Of course no, it's clear.

I am not angry. =

Of course I am angry.

This kitchen is uncomfortable. =  

I want a new house.

Do you love me ? =

I am going to ask for something expensive
How much do you love me ? =

I did something today that you won't like.

I'll be ready in a minute. =  

Take off your shoes and watch tv.

Do you find me fat ? =
Tell me that I am beautiful.

You need to learn to communicate. =

Just agree with me.

 Are you listening to me ! ? =  

 Too late, you are dead.

I am sorry. =

You'll be sorry.

Do you like this recipe? =

It's easy, so better for you to get used to it.
I am not crying ! =  

Yes, I am crying because I find it important.

In answer to the question «What's wrong ?", if she says :

Nothing.=
Everything.

When she says: «It's your decision" = 

«It's better for you to know what I want and give it to me right now".

When she says: «Go ahead, do what you want», she means in reality: =  

«I don't want you to do it and you'll pay for it later".

Would you be able, after this exploration of language to interpret what she is trying to tell you and avoid misunderstanding? Or will it be necessary to provide more clues about her language? Good luck ..